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Family-of-Origin Scale (FOS)

The Family-of-Origin Scale (FOS), developed by Hovestadt et al. (1985), is a 40-item psychometric instrument evaluating adults’ retrospective perceptions of family health across the dual dimensions of Autonomy and Intimacy.

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Abstract

The Family-of-Origin Scale (FOS), developed by Alan J. Hovestadt, William T. Anderson, Fred P. Piercy, Samuel W. Cochran, and Marshall Fine in 1985, is a prominent retrospective psychometric self-report instrument designed to assess adults’ perceptions of health, functioning, and emotional climate within their biological or adoptive family of origin. Grounded in psychodynamic, contextual, and systemic theories of family therapy—specifically drawing on the Bowen family systems theory and Framo’s family-of-origin framework—the FOS conceptualizes family health along two overarching, dialectically interrelated superordinate dimensions: Autonomy and Intimacy. The instrument comprises 40 items divided equally across 10 conceptually defined five-item subscales (four items each, yielding 20 items for Autonomy and 20 items for Intimacy). The Autonomy dimension assesses Clarity of Expression, Responsibility, Respect for Others, Openness to Others, and Acceptance of Separation and Loss. The Intimacy dimension encompasses Mood and Tone, Range of Feelings, Conflict Resolution, Empathy, and Trust. Responses are scored on a five-point Likert scale ranging from 1 (Strongly Disagree) to 5 (Strongly Agree), with 20 positively keyed and 20 negatively keyed (reverse-scored) items, yielding total composite scores between 40 and 200, where higher scores signify higher levels of perceived developmental family health. Decades of psychometric research demonstrate strong internal consistency (Cronbach’s alpha typically ranging from .88 to .97 for the total score) and high test-retest reliability (.95 to .97 over short test intervals). Although designed with a dual-factor, 10-subscale theoretical structure, extensive exploratory and confirmatory factor analyses frequently suggest that the instrument behaves primarily as a robust unidimensional measure of perceived family health or a two-factor representation dominated by a single general systemic health factor. The FOS is widely applied in clinical assessments, marital and premarital counseling, trauma research, substance abuse etiology investigations, and cross-generational relationship studies.

Keywords

Family-of-Origin Scale, FOS, family systems theory, autonomy, intimacy, family functioning, retrospective assessment, psychometrics, intergenerational transmission, adult attachment

Authors

The Family-of-Origin Scale was developed and validated collaboratively by an interdisciplinary team of family therapists, counseling psychologists, and psychometric researchers:

  • Alan J. Hovestadt, Ed.D.: Professor Emeritus of Counselor Education and Counseling Psychology at Western Michigan University, Kalamazoo, Michigan. A past president of the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy (AAMFT), Dr. Hovestadt has published extensively on intergenerational family dynamics, counselor training, and family evaluation methodologies.
  • William T. Anderson, Ed.D.: Clinician and researcher in counselor education and marriage and family therapy, affiliated with Western Michigan University during the development of the scale.
  • Fred P. Piercy, Ph.D.: Professor Emeritus of Human Development and Family Studies at Virginia Polytechnic Institute and State University (Virginia Tech). Dr. Piercy has served as editor of the Journal of Marital and Family Therapy and is recognized globally for his contributions to family therapy research, family-based substance abuse treatment, and qualitative methodology.
  • Samuel W. Cochran, Ph.D.: Quantitative psychometrician and statistical methodologist affiliated with Texas A&M University-Commerce (formerly East Texas State University).
  • Marshall Fine, Ph.D.: Couple and family therapist and scholar in family relations, affiliated with the University of Guelph, Ontario, Canada, focusing on narrative therapy, family transition processes, and developmental systemic interventions.

Purpose

The primary clinical and empirical purpose of the Family-of-Origin Scale (FOS) is to provide an objective, standardized retrospective quantification of the developmental environment within an individual’s family during childhood and adolescence. Within systemic psychology, family of origin refers to the familial group—comprising parents, primary caregivers, and siblings—in which an individual spent their formative developmental years. Systems theorists, psychodynamic clinicians, and developmental psychopathologists widely concur that emotional climates, boundaries, communication rules, and intergenerational patterns internalized in one’s family of origin establish cognitive-affective working models that heavily dictate adult psychological adjustment, relational competency, emotional regulation, and vulnerability to clinical pathology.

In clinical practice, therapists employ the FOS during individual psychotherapy, couple therapy, and family therapy intake batteries to map clients’ intergenerational blueprints. By illuminating retrospective perceptions of how conflict was negotiated, whether emotional separation was tolerated, how warmly affect was shared, and whether personal accountability was modeled, clinicians can link present-day symptomatology—such as codependency, chronic marital dissatisfaction, emotional cutoff, personality disorders, or depression—to historical family structures. In couple and premarital therapy, the FOS provides an empirical baseline to compare spouses’ developmental backgrounds, helping partners identify unconscious scripts, cognitive schemas, and cross-generational loyalty conflicts that undermine mutual trust and relational harmony.

In empirical and academic research, the FOS serves as an indispensable tool across several intersecting behavioral disciplines:

  • Etiological Psychopathology: Investigating how dysfunctional, rigid, or chaotic family-of-origin environments correlate with adult onset of major depressive disorder, generalized anxiety, borderline personality traits, and post-traumatic stress syndromes.
  • Addiction and Substance Abuse: Assessing how deficits in family autonomy and intimacy correlate with vulnerability to chemical dependency, process addictions, and co-dependency.
  • Intergenerational Transmission of Trauma and Parenting: Quantifying the mechanisms by which maladaptive parenting behaviors, domestic abuse, and relational insecurity are transmitted across generational boundaries.
  • Marital and Dyadic Adjustment: Examining how similarity or discrepancy in partners’ family-of-origin functioning impacts relationship satisfaction, conflict management strategies, and divorce rates.

Psychological Construct

The Family-of-Origin Scale measures perceived family health operationalized through two foundational, interdependent systemic dimensions: Autonomy and Intimacy. Each primary dimension is broken down into five distinct five-item subconstructs, resulting in ten detailed psychometric indicators.

1. Autonomy

Autonomy reflects the degree to which the family system encourages, tolerates, and nurtures individual identity, personal responsibility, emotional self-differentiation, and independent cognition. It embodies the degree to which a family system avoids enmeshment, pathological control, or fused boundaries. Its five subconstructs are:

  • Clarity of Expression: The extent to which family members are able and encouraged to communicate their thoughts, feelings, and internal states clearly, openly, and directly without fear of retribution, ambiguity, or communicative gaslighting (e.g., items 9, 16, 24, 34).
  • Responsibility: The degree to which family members—particularly parents and caregivers—accept personal ownership of their behaviors, decisions, errors, and emotional responses, rather than resorting to externalization, blaming, rationalization, or scapegoating (e.g., items 5, 11, 18, 38).
  • Respect for Others: The normative systemic attitude toward individuality, divergent opinions, and personal differences. In high-functioning families, diverse viewpoints are welcomed rather than squelched, ridiculed, or punished (e.g., items 4, 15, 19, 28).
  • Openness to Others: The family’s receptivity and listening capacity regarding alternative perspectives, life views, and unique individual trajectories without imposing rigid dogmatic constraints (e.g., items 6, 14, 23, 37).
  • Acceptance of Separation and Loss: The developmental capacity of the family system to adaptively confront, process, and articulate grief, loss, departure, and natural maturational separation (such as children leaving home or the death of a loved one) without emotional denial, somatic collapse, or systemic paralysis (e.g., items 10, 20, 25, 36).

2. Intimacy

Intimacy reflects the degree to which the family system provides warmth, mutual emotional safety, authentic closeness, and intersubjective connection. Rather than signifying superficial harmony, intimacy in healthy families encompasses rich affective depth, genuine empathy, and constructive conflict resolution. Its five subconstructs are:

  • Mood and Tone: The prevailing emotional atmosphere in the household, contrasting warm, supportive, friendly, and pleasant home environments with cold, punitive, hostile, or chaotic climates (e.g., items 2, 22, 29, 40).
  • Range of Feelings: The breadth of emotional expression permitted within the family. Functional systems validate both positive affect (joy, pride, tenderness) and negative affect (sadness, fear, vulnerability, anger), whereas dysfunctional systems impose overt or unwritten rules forbidding emotional transparency (e.g., items 1, 12, 32, 39).
  • Conflict Resolution: The systemic capacity to acknowledge, address, and constructively negotiate interpersonal conflict to authentic resolution without toxic avoidance, prolonged stress, or abusive escalation (e.g., items 7, 13, 27, 31).
  • Empathy for Others: The presence of genuine sensitivity, mutual care, intuitive resonance, and active listening regarding the emotional suffering and experiential states of family members (e.g., items 17, 21, 30, 35).
  • Trust: The fundamental expectation that other family members and people in general are benign, supportive, and reliable, fostering a secure world-view rather than pervasive cynicism, paranoia, or hostility (e.g., items 3, 8, 26, 33).

Theoretical Framework

The theoretical architecture of the FOS is grounded in the convergence of several major twentieth-century clinical frameworks, most notably Bowenian Family Systems Theory, Contextual Therapy, Object Relations Family Therapy, and Attachment Theory.

The foundational bedrock of Hovestadt and colleagues’ conceptualization derives directly from Murray Bowen‘s theoretical writings on the differentiation of self. Bowen posited that family systems exist along a developmental continuum between emotional fusion (where family members lack independent selfhood, reacting automatically to systemic emotional demands) and self-differentiation (the capacity to balance autonomy with deep interpersonal connection). In Bowenian theory, individuals who develop a solid self within an emotionally differentiated family can experience intimacy without fearing loss of self, and can pursue autonomous goals without alienating their emotional network. Conversely, poorly differentiated families rely on defensive triangulation, conflict, emotional cutoff, or projection to stabilize chronic systemic anxiety. The FOS’s dual axes of Autonomy and Intimacy precisely operationalize this Bowenian balance: high scores denote high levels of differentiation, whereas depressed scores denote rigid fusion, enmeshment, or defensive emotional cutoff.

The instrument also integrates the intergenerational family therapy models formulated by James L. Framo and Iván Böszörményi-Nagy. Framo argued that unaddressed conflicts and developmental injuries sustained within the family of origin are unconsciously projected onto adult intimate relationships, compelling individuals to reenact past traumatic dynamics with spouses and children. Böszörményi-Nagy’s contextual therapy emphasized the role of intergenerational balance sheets, relational trust, entitlement, and accountability. The FOS subconstructs of Responsibility, Trust, and Respect operationalize these contextual concepts by measuring whether parents fulfilled their relational duties ethically or exploited their children through scapegoating and communicative distortion.

Finally, the scale interfaces with contemporary Attachment Theory, initially developed by John Bowlby and extended to adult relationships by Hazan and Shaver. A family environment characterized by warm mood, open range of feelings, sensitivity to distress, and acceptance of loss establishes a secure relational base. This secure base allows children to internalize positive internal working models of the self (worthiness of love) and of others (trustworthiness), which are essential for developing autonomous exploration and mature adult intimacy.

Validity

Extensive psychometric investigations over the past four decades have confirmed the construct, convergent, discriminant, and criterion-related validity of the Family-of-Origin Scale across diverse nonclinical and clinical adult populations.

1. Known-Groups and Criterion Validity

In the seminal validation study conducted by Hovestadt, Anderson, Piercy, Cochran, and Fine (1985), the FOS was administered to nonclinical community adults and clinical cohorts undergoing marriage and family psychotherapy. The clinical and nonclinical groups exhibited statistically significant differences across overall scores and all 10 subscale scores, with nonclinical adults scoring substantially higher (reflecting greater perceived family health) than clinical clients (p < .001). Subsequent studies have replicated this criterion validity across psychiatric inpatient populations, individuals recovering from chemical dependency, and adult children of alcoholics (ACOA), all of whom demonstrate significantly lower FOS scores relative to demographically matched healthy controls.

2. Convergent and Concurrent Validity

Convergent validity has been established through moderate to strong correlations with well-validated indices of family functioning, dyadic adjustment, and psychological well-being:

  • Dyadic Adjustment: Significant positive correlations have been repeatedly demonstrated between FOS total scores and the Dyadic Adjustment Scale (DAS), indicating that individuals who recall their families of origin as healthy and emotionally differentiated report higher marital satisfaction, dyadic cohesion, and consensus.
  • Family Assessment Measures: The FOS exhibits substantial convergent correlations (ranging from .55 to .75) with the McMaster Family Assessment Device (FAD) General Functioning scale and the Family Adaptability and Cohesion Evaluation Scales (FACES).
  • Psychological Health: Scores on the FOS correlate negatively with standardized measures of psychopathology, including the Beck Depression Inventory (BDI), the Symptom Checklist-90-Revised (SCL-90-R), and indices of chronic trait anxiety.
  • Self-Esteem and Locus of Control: Positive associations have been documented between FOS scores and the Rosenberg Self-Esteem Scale, as well as an internal locus of control.

3. Discriminant Validity

Discriminant validity is supported by low, statistically non-significant correlations with demographic variables such as chronological age, socioeconomic status, and general cognitive intelligence. Furthermore, research examining social desirability bias (using the Marlowe-Crowne Social Desirability Scale) indicates that while moderate shared variance can occur in self-report inventories of family life, the FOS retains robust unique variance in predicting clinical symptomatology after controlling for socially desirable response tendencies.

Reliability

The Family-of-Origin Scale exhibits exceptionally robust reliability parameters, characterized by high internal consistency and remarkable temporal stability across longitudinal intervals.

1. Internal Consistency

In the original validation study by Hovestadt et al. (1985), Cronbach’s coefficient alpha for the 40-item composite instrument was determined to be .75 for the initial exploratory sample. However, subsequent independent replications across larger, more heterogeneous clinical and community samples have consistently reported substantially higher alpha coefficients:

  • Total scale Cronbach’s alpha typically ranges between .93 and .97, indicating high internal homogeneity.
  • The composite Autonomy subscale routinely produces alpha values ranging from .88 to .93.
  • The composite Intimacy subscale yields alpha values ranging from .89 to .94.
  • Individual 4-item subscales exhibit moderate to good internal consistency (alphas typically between .65 and .84), with lower values reflecting the brevity of four items per facet. Consequently, psychometricians recommend relying primarily on the total composite score or the two 20-item primary dimension scores rather than isolated subscale scores for high-stakes clinical decision-making.

2. Test-Retest Reliability

Temporal stability is a critical prerequisite for an instrument assessing retrospective childhood memories. Hovestadt et al. (1985) administered the FOS to a sample of college undergraduates over a two-week test-retest interval, yielding an overall test-retest reliability coefficient of r = .95 (p < .001). Subscale test-retest correlations ranged from .77 to .93 across the 10 facets. Later investigations evaluating stability across longer time frames (ranging from 6 weeks to 6 months) confirmed high longitudinal stability (coefficients generally exceeding .85), demonstrating that adults’ cognitive-affective representations of their developmental family climate remain stable over time unless altered by targeted, deep-seated psychotherapeutic interventions.

Factor Analysis

Although Hovestadt and colleagues constructed the FOS around a 10-subscale, two-dimensional theoretical taxonomy, empirical factor analytic investigations have generated significant discussion regarding its structural dimensionality.

Exploratory Factor Analyses (EFA)

Early exploratory factor analyses conducted by independent psychometricians—such as Fine and Hovestadt (1984), Lee, Prentice, and Halbgewachs (1989), and Kline and Snow (1994)—consistently failed to recover the clean 10-factor theoretical model. Instead, principal component and common factor analyses with varimax and oblimin rotations typically extract between one and five empirical factors:

  • The Unidimensional General Factor: A dominant, unrotated first factor frequently accounts for 35% to 50% of the total variance. Most items load substantially (> .40) onto this primary dimension, which captures a generalized evaluative construct of Perceived Family Health vs. Dysfunction.
  • Two-Factor Solutions: When forced into a two-factor structure, items frequently bifurcate not cleanly into theoretical Autonomy and Intimacy, but rather into: (1) Emotional Expressiveness and Positive Family Climate, and (2) Conflict Resolution, Boundary Management, and Systemic Trust. Alternatively, in some samples, an artifactual method factor emerges separating positively keyed items from reverse-scored items.
  • Multi-Factor Variants: Several studies have reported 5-factor empirical extractions comprising: (a) Family Climate/Warmth, (b) Expressiveness/Openness, (c) Conflict Resolution, (d) Personal Responsibility/Trust, and (e) Acceptance of Loss.

Confirmatory Factor Analyses (CFA)

Subsequent confirmatory factor analyses comparing competing models have evaluated: (1) an independent 10-factor oblique model, (2) a two-factor correlated Autonomy-Intimacy model, (3) a hierarchical higher-order model with one general factor overarching Autonomy and Intimacy, and (4) a strictly unidimensional one-factor model.

Fit indices across CFA studies typically reveal that the correlated two-factor model and the hierarchical general family health model provide acceptable and statistically comparable fits to the data (e.g., Comparative Fit Index [CFI] > .90; Root Mean Square Error of Approximation [RMSEA] < .06; Standardized Root Mean Square Residual [SRMR] < .05), provided that correlated error terms among similarly worded items or method-effect latents for reversed items are specified. Because the correlation between the latent Autonomy and Intimacy factors routinely exceeds .80 or .85, psychometric researchers emphasize that while the 10 subscales provide conceptual guidance for therapeutic discussion, the FOS operates empirically as a unified, single overarching index of developmental family wellness.

Instrument / Measurement Tool

  • Instrument Name: Family-of-Origin Scale (FOS)
  • Alternative Titles: Hovestadt Family-of-Origin Scale; Hovestadt FOS
  • Developers: Alan J. Hovestadt, Ed.D., William T. Anderson, Ed.D., Fred P. Piercy, Ph.D., Samuel W. Cochran, Ph.D., and Marshall Fine, Ph.D.
  • Publication Date: 1985
  • Target Population: Adults (aged 18 and older) reflecting retrospectively on their childhood/adolescent family of origin.
  • Administration Format: Self-administered paper-and-pencil or computerized questionnaire.
  • Administration Time: Approximately 10 to 15 minutes.
  • Item Count: 40 items total.
  • Superordinate Dimensions (2):
    • Autonomy (20 items): Assessing clarity of expression, personal responsibility, respect for differences, open listening, and grief processing.
    • Intimacy (20 items): Assessing emotional warmth, full affective range, constructive conflict management, mutual empathy, and foundational trust.
  • Subscales (10 facets, 4 items each):
    • Autonomy: Clarity of Expression: Items 9*, 16*, 24, 34
    • Autonomy: Responsibility: Items 5*, 11, 18*, 38
    • Autonomy: Respect for Others: Items 4*, 15, 19, 28*
    • Autonomy: Openness to Others: Items 6, 14, 23*, 37*
    • Autonomy: Acceptance of Separation and Loss: Items 10, 20*, 25*, 36
    • Intimacy: Mood and Tone: Items 2*, 22*, 29, 40
    • Intimacy: Range of Feelings: Items 1, 12, 32*, 39*
    • Intimacy: Conflict Resolution: Items 7*, 13*, 27, 31
    • Intimacy: Empathy for Others: Items 17*, 21, 30*, 35
    • Intimacy: Trust: Items 3, 8, 26*, 33* (Note: Some source printings misprint item 31* for 33*, but item 33 assesses interpersonal exploitation/trust)
  • Response Scale: 5-point Likert scale:
    • 1 = Strongly Disagree
    • 2 = Disagree
    • 3 = Neutral
    • 4 = Agree
    • 5 = Strongly Agree
  • Scoring Instructions:
    • Twenty items are reverse-scored (*): Items 2, 4, 5, 7, 9, 13, 16, 17, 18, 20, 22, 23, 25, 26, 28, 30, 32, 33, 37, and 39. For these reverse items, convert values as follows: 1 becomes 5, 2 becomes 4, 3 remains 3, 4 becomes 2, and 5 becomes 1.
    • The remaining 20 positively phrased items are scored as marked (1 = 1 to 5 = 5).
    • Subscale scores are calculated by summing the scores of their respective four items (range: 4 to 20 per subscale).
    • Dimension scores for Autonomy and Intimacy are calculated by summing their respective five subscales (range: 20 to 100 per dimension).
    • The Total FOS Score is calculated by summing all 40 recoded items (range: 40 to 200).
  • Interpretation:
    • High Scores (160–200): Perceptions of a healthy, differentiated, warm, and highly supportive family environment with effective conflict resolution, open communication, and mutual trust.
    • Moderate Scores (120–159): Perceptions of an average family environment characterized by moderate health with sporadic communication barriers, conditional acceptance, or intermittent unresolved conflict.
    • Low Scores (40–119): Perceptions of a dysfunctional, rigid, cold, or chaotic family environment marked by poor boundaries, unresolved grief, emotional invalidation, or pervasive distrust.

Permissions & Fee and Test Year

The Family-of-Origin Scale was originally formulated, validated, and published in 1985 in the peer-reviewed academic literature:

Hovestadt, A. J., Anderson, W. T., Piercy, F. P., Cochran, S. W., & Fine, M. (1985). A family of origin scale. Journal of Marital and Family Therapy, 11(3), 287-297.

The copyright of the original journal publication is held by the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy (AAMFT) and published by John Wiley & Sons. The scale is widely reproduced for educational and clinical assessment purposes in major psychometric handbooks, including Joel Fischer and Kevin J. Corcoran’s seminal compendium, Measures for Clinical Practice and Research: A Sourcebook (Oxford University Press).

For non-commercial empirical research, academic dissertations, and routine clinical use, the instrument is generally accessible without licensing fees under fair-use scholarly provisions. However, researchers, commercial publishers, or digital health platforms planning to integrate the FOS into proprietary commercial assessment software, mobile applications, or for-profit publications must seek formal written permission from the copyright holders and the primary scale authors.

References

  • Bowen, M. (1978). Family therapy in clinical practice. Jason Aronson. https://books.google.com/books?id=bK2bAwAAQBAJ
  • Boszormenyi-Nagy, I., & Spark, G. M. (1973). Invisible loyalties: Reciprocity in intergenerational family therapy. Harper & Row.
  • Fine, M., & Hovestadt, A. J. (1984). Perceptions of family-of-origin health and adult intimacy. Journal of Marital and Family Therapy, 10(2), 193–196. https://doi.org/10.1111/j.1752-0606.1984.tb00010.x
  • Fischer, J., & Corcoran, K. J. (2007). Measures for clinical practice and research: A sourcebook (4th ed., Vol. 1, pp. 306–308). Oxford University Press.
  • Framo, J. L. (1992). Family-of-origin therapy: An intergenerational approach. Brunner/Mazel.
  • Hovestadt, A. J., Anderson, W. T., Piercy, F. P., Cochran, S. W., & Fine, M. (1985). A family of origin scale. Journal of Marital and Family Therapy, 11(3), 287–297. https://doi.org/10.1111/j.1752-0606.1985.tb00621.x
  • Kline, G. H., & Snow, D. L. (1994). Factor structure and psychometric properties of the Family-of-Origin Scale with psychiatric inpatients. Journal of Marital and Family Therapy, 20(3), 289–302. https://doi.org/10.1111/j.1752-0606.1994.tb00118.x
  • Lee, R. E., Prentice, D. G., & Halbgewachs, D. H. (1989). The Family of Origin Scale: A psychometric examination. Journal of Marital and Family Therapy, 15(4), 419–427. https://doi.org/10.1111/j.1752-0606.1989.tb00827.x

13. Items of the Scale (Questionnaire)

Below are the authentic scale items in their original language as published in the standard psychometric validation studies, without modification or translation to preserve instrument validity and reliability:
1

In my family‚ it was normal to show both positive and negative feelings.
2

The atmosphere in my family usually was unpleasant.
3

In my family‚ we encouraged one another to develop new friendships.
4

Differences of opinion in my family were discouraged.
5

People in my family often made excuses for their mistakes.
6

My parents encouraged family members to listen to one another.
7

Conflicts in my family never got resolved.
8

My family taught me that people were basically good.
9

I found it difficult to understand what other family members said and how they felt.
10

We talked about our sadness when a relative or family friend died.
11

My parents openly admitted it when they were wrong.
12

In my family‚ I expressed just about any feeling I had.
13

Resolving conflicts in my family was a very stressful experience.
14

My family was receptive to the different ways various family members viewed life.
15

My parents encouraged me to express my views openly.
16

I often had to guess at what other family members thought or how they felt.
17

My attitudes and feelings frequently were ignored or criticized in my family.
18

My family members rarely expressed responsibility for their actions.
19

In my family‚ I felt free to express my own opinions.
20

We never talked about our grief when a relative or family friend died.
21

Sometimes in my family‚ I did not have to say anything but I felt understood.
22

The atmosphere in my family was cold and negative.
23

The members of my family were not very receptive to one another’s views.
24

I found it easy to understand what other family members said and how they felt.
25

If a family friend moved away‚ we never discussed or feelings of sadness.
26

In my family‚ I learned to be suspicious of others.
27

In my family‚ I felt that I could talk things out and settle conflicts.
28

I found it difficult to express my own opinions in my family.
29

Mealtimes in my home usually were friendly and pleasant.
30

In my family‚ no one cared about the feelings of other family members.
31

We usually were able to work out conflicts in my family.
32

In my family‚ certain feelings were not allowed to be expressed.
33

My family believed that people usually took advantage of you.
34

I found it easy in my family to express what I thought and how I felt.
35

My family members usually were sensitive to one another’s feelings.
36

When someone important to us moved away‚ our family discussed or feelings.
37

My parents discouraged us from expressing views different from theirs.
38

In my family‚ people took responsibility for what they did.
39

My family had an unwritten rule: don’t express your feelings.
40

I remember my family as being warm and supportive.
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