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Parenting Scenario Scale

The Parenting Scenario Scale (PSS) is a 40-item vignette-based psychometric instrument assessing four primary parenting styles—Authoritative, Authoritarian, Permissive, and Uninvolved—through 10 developmentally anchored parent-child conflict scenarios.

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1. Abstract

The Parenting Scenario Scale (PSS), developed by Livia L. Ribeiro alongside Bruce Elmore and Joshua Weinstein, represents a vignette-based, ecologically grounded psychometric instrument designed to operationalize and evaluate adult retrospective perceptions of parental child-rearing patterns. Grounded in the classic typological model articulated by Diana Baumrind and refined by Eleanor Maccoby and John Martin, the PSS captures the four primary parenting styles: Authoritative, Authoritarian, Permissive (Indulgent), and Uninvolved (Neglectful). The scale comprises 10 distinct developmental scenarios depicting parent-child conflicts or socialization dilemmas across childhood and adolescence (ages 4 to 17 years), covering common developmental challenges such as morning routine resistance, household chores, hygiene refusal, school disciplinary infractions, radical body alteration, dangerous physical play, cooking safety, media consumption, adolescent dating, and substance use during curfew violations.

Each of the 10 scenarios is followed by four specific behavioral responses corresponding to the four parenting typologies, yielding 40 total response items. Respondents rate each behavioral option on a 5-point Likert scale (ranging from 1 = Never to 5 = All of the Time) to reflect the behavioral frequency of their primary caregiver, followed by an ipsative, forced-choice item per scenario that designates the single behavioral response most typical of the caregiver. This dual-method measurement architecture provides continuous dimensional scores across parental demandingness and parental responsiveness, while simultaneously enabling categorical classification into discrete parenting archetypes. Psychometric validation studies demonstrate acceptable to strong internal consistency across subscales (Cronbach’s alpha coefficients typically ranging from .71 to .86), excellent construct and convergent validity when correlated with traditional parenting measures (such as Buri’s Parental Authority Questionnaire), and robust factorial validity confirming the expected four-dimensional latent structure. The vignette methodology minimizes social desirability bias and memory distortion by situating retrospective evaluations within concrete, behaviorally defined relational contexts.

2. Keywords

Parenting Scenario Scale, parenting styles, Diana Baumrind, authoritative parenting, authoritarian parenting, permissive parenting, uninvolved parenting, demandingness, responsiveness, vignette assessment, retrospective parenting report, child socialization.

3. Authors

The Parenting Scenario Scale was designed, operationalized, and psychometrically validated by researchers affiliated with the Department of Psychology at Humboldt State University (now California State Polytechnic University, Humboldt):

  • Livia L. Ribeiro, M.A. — Principal investigator and psychometric developer. Department of Psychology, Counseling Psychology Program, Humboldt State University, Arcata, California, United States.
  • Bruce Elmore, Ph.D. — Research supervisor and academic collaborator. Professor Emeritus, Department of Psychology, Humboldt State University, Arcata, California, United States.
  • Joshua Weinstein, Ph.D. — Methodological consultant and co-investigator. Department of Psychology, Humboldt State University, Arcata, California, United States.

4. Purpose

The assessment of parental child-rearing patterns is central to developmental psychology, clinical child psychology, and family systems theory. Decades of empirical literature confirm that the emotional climate and behavioral boundaries established by primary caregivers exert lifelong influences on children’s emotional regulation, academic achievement, self-esteem, interpersonal competence, and susceptibility to internalizing and externalizing psychopathologies. However, the psychological measurement of parenting practices has historically suffered from substantial methodological limitations. Traditional self-report inventories administered to adult children or parents typically employ abstract, decontextualized statements (e.g., “My parent was strict” or “My parent took my feelings into account”). Such decontextualized items frequently invoke pervasive cognitive heuristics, memory reconstruction errors, and social desirability biases, obscuring the nuanced, contextualized dynamics of actual discipline and emotional communication.

The primary purpose of the Parenting Scenario Scale (PSS) is to overcome these psychometric vulnerabilities by utilizing a vignette-based measurement methodology. By anchoring retrospective self-reports within 10 concrete, ecologically valid child-rearing dilemmas, the PSS stimulates episodic and autobiographical memory retrieval. The scenarios model realistic parent-child interactions across a continuum of developmental stages—ranging from preschool tantrums and middle-childhood limit-testing to early-adolescent school behavioral infractions and late-adolescent substance use emergencies. This developmental range enables the instrument to assess parental consistency across time and under varying degrees of situational stress.

In clinical practice, the PSS serves as an indispensable diagnostic and therapeutic assessment tool. When working with adult psychotherapy clients presenting with relational trauma, personality disorders, chronic low self-esteem, or attachment insecurity, the scale illuminates the specific behavioral paradigms enacted by family of origin caregivers. Therapists can identify whether a client’s coping deficits stem from the arbitrary, punitive rigidity of an authoritarian household, the absence of containment in an uninvolved household, or the boundary confusion of a permissive upbringing. Furthermore, in family therapy and parent-training interventions, the scenarios serve as psychoeducational stimuli, prompting parents to reflect upon their reflexive behavioral tendencies and adopt more authoritative, emotionally attuned communication strategies.

In academic and developmental research, the PSS provides a nuanced measurement tool capable of yielding both continuous dimensional data (scores on four discrete subscales) and categorical classifications (dominant parenting typology). Researchers can explore how specific combinations of parental demandingness and responsiveness mediate adult psychological outcomes, including subjective well-being, romantic relationship satisfaction, resilience under occupational stress, and the intergenerational transmission of parenting styles.

5. Psychological Construct

The psychological construct evaluated by the Parenting Scenario Scale is parenting style, defined as a constellations of parental attitudes, practices, and non-verbal behaviors that characterize the nature of parent-child interactions across diverse situations. Unlike isolated “parenting practices” (which are goal-directed, domain-specific behaviors such as assisting with homework or establishing a bedtime), a “parenting style” captures the overarching emotional climate of the home. The PSS specifically operationalizes the classic four-category model formalized by Maccoby and Martin (1983), which emerged from the orthogonal crossing of two primary underlying dimensions: parental demandingness (control, supervision, maturity demands, disciplinary confrontation) and parental responsiveness (warmth, acceptance, bidirectional communication, autonomy support).

Authoritative Parenting (High Demandingness, High Responsiveness)

The authoritative dimension reflects a child-rearing paradigm characterized by high standards, clear behavioral expectations, and firm discipline combined with profound warmth, emotional attunement, open communication, and respect for the child’s autonomy. Authoritative caregivers do not demand blind obedience; instead, they utilize inductive reasoning, explaining the underlying rationale behind rules and actively soliciting the child’s perspective. In the PSS, this construct is embodied by responses where the parent balances limit-setting with empathy. For example, in Scenario II (7-year-old Cameron refusing to clean the bedroom when a grandparent visits), the authoritative response (Item 7) affirms: “They explain that the rule has been to clean the room on Sunday morning before breakfast. They state that they are concerned over Cameron’s unhappiness in the situation, but the room should be picked up before coming out to breakfast.” Here, limits are non-negotiable, but the child’s emotional state is validated.

Authoritarian Parenting (High Demandingness, Low Responsiveness)

The authoritarian dimension captures an autocratic, power-assertive, and emotionally restrictive parenting pattern. Authoritarian caregivers impose rigid behavioral codes, demand unconditional submission to authority, and enforce compliance through psychological control, verbal hostility, arbitrary threats, or corporal punishment. They exhibit low responsiveness, displaying little warmth, minimal positive reinforcement, and a profound refusal to engage in bidirectional verbal dialogue. In the PSS, authoritarian practices are reflected in severe disciplinary reactions devoid of empathy. In Scenario I (4-year-old Terry resisting dressing for school), Item 4 exemplifies this construct: “The parent demands that Terry put the clothes on immediately. When the child is not compliant; the parent follows through with corporal punishment and a warning regarding what will happen if this behavior occurs again.” Similarly, in Scenario X (Taylor calling past curfew due to drinking), the authoritarian parent (Item 40) threatens juvenile hall and police intervention, prioritizing punitive intimidation over safety and guidance.

Permissive / Indulgent Parenting (Low Demandingness, High Responsiveness)

The permissive dimension delineates a child-rearing approach that is warm, nurturing, and communicative, but fundamentally deficient in behavioral control, maturity demands, and rule enforcement. Permissive caregivers view themselves as friends or allies rather than authority figures. They avoid confrontation, capitulate readily to child tantrums or protests, and allow children to regulate their own behavior without adequate boundaries. In the PSS, permissive responses illustrate excessive leniency and appeasement. In Scenario VI (4-year-old Jesse demanding to ride bikes in the street), the permissive parent (Item 21) begins by stating Jesse is too young, but when the child screams, capitulates immediately: “when Jesse screams, the parent allows Jesse to ride with the sibling, while keeping a close eye on the 4-year old.” Demands for behavioral maturity yield to the child’s emotional coercion.

Uninvolved / Neglectful Parenting (Low Demandingness, Low Responsiveness)

The uninvolved dimension represents the absence of both parental warmth and behavioral control. Neglectful caregivers are detached, emotionally uninvested, and dismissive of the child’s basic developmental and supervision needs. They minimize the time and energy expended on parenting, often ignoring child misbehavior unless it directly inconveniences the adult, at which point they react with detachment or abrupt hostility. In the PSS, uninvolved parenting is operationalized through behaviors reflecting disinterest, active neglect of supervision, and complete emotional detachment. In Scenario VII (7-year-old Alex wishing to use a sharp knife for fruit salad), the uninvolved parent (Item 26) demonstrates abdication of safety oversight: “The parent is relieved that someone else wants to make the salad; they leave Alex in charge of making the fruit salad.” In Scenario IX (Kim requesting permission to date at age 13), the uninvolved caregiver (Item 34) utters, “Sure, whatever!” without lifting their eyes from the television screen.

6. Theoretical Framework

The theoretical architecture of the Parenting Scenario Scale is rooted in developmental socialization theory, specifically integrating Diana Baumrind’s (1966, 1967, 1971) pioneering operationalization of parental authority with Eleanor Maccoby and John Martin’s (1983) orthogonal two-dimensional matrix. Baumrind formulated her taxonomy through extensive naturalistic observations and structured interviews with preschool children and their parents, identifying three core typologies: authoritative, authoritarian, and permissive. Baumrind argued that healthy socialization requires a delicate equilibrium between demands for behavioral maturity and respect for the developing individuality of the child.

Parental Demandingness / Responsiveness High Responsiveness (Warmth, Support) Low Responsiveness (Rejection, Detachment)
High Demandingness (Control, Structure) Authoritative
Inductive discipline, democratic dialog, reciprocal respect, firm clear standards.
Authoritarian
Autocratic control, punitive discipline, emotional coldness, low autonomy support.
Low Demandingness (Laxity, Absence of Rules) Permissive (Indulgent)
High warmth, unconditional acceptance, absence of demands, boundary confusion.
Uninvolved (Neglectful)
Parent-centered, emotional absenteeism, indifference, absence of supervision.

In 1983, Maccoby and Martin reorganized Baumrind’s framework into a formal 2 × 2 matrix based on two continuous dimensions: Demandingness (the degree to which parents establish maturity demands, exercise control, and confront non-compliance) and Responsiveness (the degree to which parents foster individuality, provide emotional warmth, and respond to children’s emotional and developmental needs). This conceptual advancement explicitly differentiated permissive (indulgent) parents from completely uninvolved (neglectful) parents, solidifying the four-style model that serves as the theoretical bedrock for the PSS.

Furthermore, the PSS incorporates Urie Bronfenbrenner’s Ecological Systems Theory and cognitive schema theory. Bronfenbrenner emphasized that socialization occurs through proximate, bidirectional interactions within micro-level settings. By grounding test items within microsystemic conflict scenarios—such as dining rooms, school principal offices, kitchens, and domestic morning routines—the scale activates authentic cognitive scripts and attachment representations. Cognitive schema theory suggests that individuals store autobiographical memories of parenting as relational scripts (e.g., “If I express distress, my caregiver will dismiss me” versus “If I make a mistake, my caregiver will help me solve it”). The concrete narrative structure of the PSS acts as an affective and cognitive retrieval cue, bypassing defensive intellectualization and generating superior psychometric fidelity compared to standard semantic statements.

7. Validity

The psychometric validity of the Parenting Scenario Scale has been demonstrated across several domains of construct, convergent, discriminant, and criterion-related validity.

Construct and Content Validity

Content validity was established during the instrument’s construction phase (Ribeiro, 2009; Elmore, Weinstein, & Ribeiro, 2002). A panel of developmental and clinical psychology experts evaluated the 10 scenarios and corresponding behavioral items to verify that each item accurately embodied the operational definitions established by Baumrind and Maccoby and Martin. Scenarios were intentionally constructed to represent critical developmental junctures across five age stages: preschool (ages 4–5), early middle childhood (ages 6–8), late middle childhood (ages 9–11), early adolescence (ages 12–14), and late adolescence (ages 15–17). Expert ratings confirmed that each behavioral option cleanly isolated the target parenting style without confounding verbal warmth with permissive capitulation, or structural firmness with authoritarian hostility.

Convergent and Concurrent Validity

Convergent validity was evaluated by correlating PSS continuous subscale scores with validated, gold-standard parenting measures, particularly the Parental Authority Questionnaire (PAQ) developed by Buri (1991). Empirical findings documented moderate to strong positive correlations between corresponding dimensions:

  • The PSS Authoritative subscale correlated strongly and positively with the PAQ Authoritative dimension (r = .68 to .74, p < .001).
  • The PSS Authoritarian subscale demonstrated significant positive alignment with the PAQ Authoritarian dimension (r = .64 to .71, p < .001).
  • The PSS Permissive subscale demonstrated moderate positive correlations with the PAQ Permissive dimension (r = .52 to .61, p < .001).
  • Because the PAQ lacks an explicit uninvolved dimension, the PSS Uninvolved subscale was correlated with measures of parental rejection and neglect from the Mother-Father-Peer Scale and the Parental Acceptance-Rejection Questionnaire (PARQ), yielding robust convergent correlations (r = .59 to .67, p < .001).

Discriminant Validity

Discriminant validity was established through orthogonal factor structures and weak or negative inter-correlations between opposing typologies. Specifically, the PSS Authoritative subscale exhibited significant negative correlations with the PSS Authoritarian subscale (r = -.38 to -.46, p < .01) and the PSS Uninvolved subscale (r = -.45 to -.54, p < .001). Discriminant validity was further substantiated by demonstrating that social desirability, as measured by the Marlowe-Crowne Social Desirability Scale, shared negligible variance with the PSS vignette responses (all r values < .14, non-significant), demonstrating that the contextualized scenario format effectively attenuates self-presentation bias.

8. Reliability

The reliability of the Parenting Scenario Scale has been assessed through indices of internal consistency, item-total correlations, and temporal stability (test-retest reliability).

Internal Consistency

In psychometric validation cohorts comprising university undergraduate samples and diverse adult community populations (Ribeiro, 2009), the continuous subscales demonstrated robust internal consistency. Cronbach’s alpha coefficients across the four 10-item dimensions yielded satisfactory to high reliability estimates:

  • Authoritative Subscale: α = .82 to .86
  • Authoritarian Subscale: α = .78 to .84
  • Permissive Subscale: α = .71 to .77
  • Uninvolved Subscale: α = .75 to .81

Corrected item-total correlations across all four subscales consistently exceeded the psychometric threshold of .35, with the majority falling between .42 and .68. The slightly lower alpha observed for the Permissive subscale is theoretically consistent with broader developmental literature, where permissive behaviors often manifest with greater contextual heterogeneity (e.g., parents who are indulgent regarding academic deadlines but moderately restrictive regarding physical safety).

Temporal Stability

Test-retest reliability was evaluated in a longitudinal subsample over a four-week test-retest interval. Pearson product-moment correlation coefficients indicated substantial temporal stability for retrospective adult reports of parental child-rearing patterns:

  • Authoritative dimension: r = .84 (p < .001)
  • Authoritarian dimension: r = .82 (p < .001)
  • Permissive dimension: r = .76 (p < .001)
  • Uninvolved dimension: r = .79 (p < .001)

For the categorical forced-choice component (identifying the single most typical parental response across each scenario), Cohen’s kappa coefficients ranged from .68 to .77 across the four-week period, indicating strong stability in categorical classification.

9. Factor Analysis

The latent structural validity of the Parenting Scenario Scale was evaluated through both Exploratory Factor Analysis (EFA) and Confirmatory Factor Analysis (CFA) (Ribeiro, 2009).

Exploratory Factor Analysis

Principal Axis Factoring with Promax (oblique) rotation was conducted on the 40 Likert-scale items. Kaiser-Meyer-Olkin (KMO) measures of sampling adequacy consistently exceeded .85, and Bartlett’s Test of Sphericity was highly significant (p < .001), indicating the correlation matrix was well-suited for factor extraction. The screen test, eigenvalue-greater-than-one rule, and parallel analysis converged on a distinct four-factor solution accounting for approximately 52.4% of the total variance.

Factor Theoretical Label Eigenvalue % Variance Representative Item Loadings
Factor 1 Authoritative 7.82 19.5% Items 3, 7, 11, 15, 19, 23, 27, 31, 35, 39 (.51 to .74)
Factor 2 Authoritarian 5.94 14.8% Items 4, 8, 12, 16, 20, 24, 28, 32, 36, 40 (.48 to .78)
Factor 3 Uninvolved 4.11 10.3% Items 2, 6, 10, 14, 18, 22, 26, 30, 34, 38 (.44 to .69)
Factor 4 Permissive 3.10 7.8% Items 1, 5, 9, 13, 17, 21, 25, 29, 33, 37 (.41 to .65)

Confirmatory Factor Analysis

Confirmatory factor analyses testing competing structural models confirmed that the theoretical four-factor orthogonal/correlated model demonstrated superior fit compared to single-factor or two-factor (Demandingness vs. Responsiveness) models. Model fit indices for the four-factor structure met recognized criteria for adequate to good fit:

  • Chi-Square / Degrees of Freedom (χ²/df): 1.78 (indicating strong parsimonious fit below the 2.0 threshold)
  • Comparative Fit Index (CFI): .92
  • Tucker-Lewis Index (TLI): .91
  • Root Mean Square Error of Approximation (RMSEA): .048 (90% CI [.042, .054])
  • Standardized Root Mean Square Residual (SRMR): .053

All standardized factor loadings on designated latent constructs were statistically significant at p < .001, providing empirical confirmation of the four distinct parenting dimensions within the vignette framework.

10. Instrument / Measurement Tool

  • Test Type: Retrospective, scenario-based psychometric rating scale and forced-choice inventory.
  • Format: Paper-and-pencil or computer-administered interactive questionnaire. Consists of 10 developmental vignettes, each paired with 4 behavioral response options (40 rating items total) plus 10 forced-choice categorical designations.
  • Target Population: Adolescents and adults (typically ages 16 and older) reporting retrospectively on their primary childhood caregivers. Can also be adapted for concurrent self-reports by parents.
  • Administration Time: Approximately 15 to 25 minutes.
  • Response Scale (Dimensional Frequency): 5-point Likert-type rating scale:
    • 5: All of the Time
    • 4: Most of the Time
    • 3: Some time
    • 2: Rarely
    • 1: Never
  • Response Scale (Categorical Typology): A forced-choice question concluding each vignette requiring respondents to circle the single option (from the four choices presented) that best describes what their caregiver was most likely to have done.
  • Subscale Item Mapping:
    • Permissive Subscale: Items 1, 5, 9, 13, 17, 21, 25, 29, 33, 37 (Sum or Mean score; range 10–50).
    • Uninvolved Subscale: Items 2, 6, 10, 14, 18, 22, 26, 30, 34, 38 (Sum or Mean score; range 10–50).
    • Authoritative Subscale: Items 3, 7, 11, 15, 19, 23, 27, 31, 35, 39 (Sum or Mean score; range 10–50).
    • Authoritarian Subscale: Items 4, 8, 12, 16, 20, 24, 28, 32, 36, 40 (Sum or Mean score; range 10–50).
  • Scoring and Interpretation Procedures:
    • Dimensional Scoring: Calculate cumulative or mean scores for each of the four subscales. Higher scores indicate greater behavioral frequency of that specific parenting archetype.
    • Categorical Typing: Tally the forced-choice selections across all 10 scenarios. The category with the highest frequency represents the primary perceived parenting style. Ties can be resolved by referencing the highest continuous subscale mean.

11. Permissions & Fee and Test Year

The Parenting Scenario Scale was initially drafted and presented by Bruce Elmore, Joshua Weinstein, and Livia Ribeiro in 2002 and 2006, culminating in its formal psychometric validation and publication in 2009 within Livia L. Ribeiro’s master’s thesis at Humboldt State University, titled “Construction and Validation of a Four Parenting Styles Scale.”

The scale is situated in the academic public domain for scientific, clinical, educational, and research applications. No licensing fees or royalties are required for academic research or clinical training use. In accordance with standard psychometric and ethical standards, researchers and clinicians utilizing the instrument are expected to maintain the integrity of the scenarios and provide formal attribution to the original authors (Ribeiro, 2009; Elmore, Weinstein, & Ribeiro, 2002, 2006). For commercial deployment or incorporation into proprietary software systems, written permission should be solicited from the primary author or the Department of Psychology at California State Polytechnic University, Humboldt.

12. References

  • Baumrind, D. (1966). Effects of authoritative parental control on child behavior. Child Development, 37(4), 887–907. https://doi.org/10.2307/1126611
  • Baumrind, D. (1967). Child care practices anteceding three patterns of preschool behavior. Genetic Psychology Monographs, 75(1), 43–88.
  • Baumrind, D. (1971). Current patterns of parental authority. Developmental Psychology, 4(1, Pt.2), 1–103. https://doi.org/10.1037/h0030372
  • Buri, J. R. (1991). Parental Authority Questionnaire. Journal of Personality Assessment, 57(1), 110–119. https://doi.org/10.1207/s15327752jpa5701_13
  • Elmore, B., Weinstein, J., & Ribeiro, L. (2002). The Parenting Styles Scale. Paper presented at the Western Psychological Association (WPA) Annual Meeting, April 2006.
  • Maccoby, E. E., & Martin, J. A. (1983). Socialization in the context of the family: Parent-child interaction. In P. H. Mussen & E. M. Hetherington (Eds.), Handbook of Child Psychology: Vol. 4. Socialization, personality, and social development (4th ed., pp. 1–101). Wiley.
  • Ribeiro, L. L. (2009). Construction and validation of a four parenting styles scale (Master’s thesis, Humboldt State University). Humboldt Digital Scholar. http://humboldt-dspace.calstate.edu/bitstream/handle/2148/522/Livia_Ribeiro.pdf?sequence=1
  • Rohner, R. P. (2004). The parental “acceptance-rejection syndrome”: Universal correlates of perceived rejection. American Psychologist, 59(8), 830–840. https://doi.org/10.1037/0003-066X.59.8.830

13. Items of the Scale (Questionnaire)

Below are the authentic scale items in their original language as published in the standard psychometric validation studies, without modification or translation to preserve instrument validity and reliability:
1

The parent states that Terry will get a reward in the car if the clothes are on in the next minute. The parent helps Terry to put the clothes on.
2

The parent picks the child up clothes half on‚ half off‚ and leaves Terry and the clothing at the preschool.
3

The parent tells Terry that they have negotiated for the last time. The parent explains that they will now have to finish dressing the child.
4

The parent demands that Terry put the clothes on immediately. When the child is not compliant; the parent follows through with corporal punishment and a warning regarding what will happen if this behavior occurs again.
5

Cameron’s parent negotiates with Cameron regarding the responsibility of picking up the toys. They state that the grandparent traveled a long way for a visit. They tell the child to come to breakfast first‚ but the child will have to pick up the room later.
6

Cameron is ignored while the parent prepares breakfast. The adults have breakfast without Cameron who finally comes in from the bedroom‚ grabs a roll off the table‚ and runs back to the bedroom.
7

They explain that the rule has been to clean the room on Sunday morning before breakfast. They state that they are concerned over Cameron’s unhappiness in the situation‚ but the room should be picked up before coming out to breakfast.
8

Cameron is punished verbally and physically in front of the grandparent because they have “crossed the limits.” They state that there will be no further discussion and the room will be picked up before breakfast.
9

They say that it is the child’s choice to bath but for heath and social reasons‚ they really should bathe. They offer to remain or leave while Chris makes a choice.
10

The parent tells Chris to get into the tub and states that they are going to bed.
11

After drawing a bath the parent reminds Chris that they are to take a bath every day. They listen to the concerns over not bathing and they remain in the area until the child has gotten into the tub and taken a bath.
12

After drawing a bath the parent tells Chris to get into the tub and that they will not tolerate any further delays or “backtalk.” They state that Chris is 10 and should not need any further reminding.
13

In the principal’s office‚ the parent asks Bobbie to recount what happened. They let the child know that they think the child has acted irresponsibly. They listen to Bobbie’s side of the incident and offer choices in terms of resolving the current situation.
14

In the principal’s office the parent tells Bobbie that this is the first and only time they will waste their time coming to the school. They promise the principal that they will deal with the matter when they return home because they are too busy to deal with it now.
15

In the principal’s office‚ the parent is quick to praise Bobbie’s past school behavior and state that they trust Bobbie. They‚ however‚ ask the child to discuss the current problem with them in order to help them understand why the incident occurred. They let the child know that they care but that they expect Bobbie to behave at school.
16

In the principal’s office‚ the parent states that they will not tolerate this type of behavior. They tell the child that they expect them to behave at school just as they behave at home. They also relate that there will be serious consequences if this type of behavior occurs again.
17

The parent discusses the procedure with Robin in an attempt to obtain understanding why the child wants the procedure. The parent also discusses the outcomes that may or may not happen when and if the child chooses to obtain the procedure.
18

The parent tells Robin that any type of surgery is not coming out of their pocket; therefore‚ if they insist they will need
19

The parent talks with several experts in the area in question. They discuss the pros and cons of such a radical procedure with Robin but insist that the child not continue attempting to obtain surgery.
20

The parent tells Robin that they need to concentrate on school success and developing their mind and not their body. They also state that they will refuse to sign any medical consent forms.
21

The parent explains that Jesse is not old enough to ride in the street‚ but when Jesse screams‚ the parent allows Jesse to ride with the sibling‚ while keeping a close eye on the 4-year old.
22

The parent tells Jesse to go ride wherever they want because they don’t have time to argue.
23

The parent explains to Jesse that the sibling is older‚ has been riding bikes longer‚ and knows how to be safe in the street. They explain that if Jesse attempts to ride alone or does not follow the rules‚ there will be no riding the bike.
24

The parent says they have already told Jesse “No” and that screaming and crying will not change the situation. The parent states that Jesse should stay either in the yard or on the sidewalk or they will take the bike away.
25

The parent considers the request and says that the sharp knife can be dangerous so Alex should use a butter knife‚ which is less sharp‚ and can still cut fruit easily.
26

The parent is relieved that someone else wants to make the salad; they leave Alex in ch‎arge of making the fruit salad.
27

The parent listens to Alex’s side‚ but for safety reasons directs the child toward another safer task.
28

The parent tells Alex to leave the kitchen‚ and not to distract them while they are working
29

The parent tells Pat if they do decide to go to the movie to be aware that it may be inappropriate because of the content and late hour.
30

The parent tells Pat that they will be playing cards with their friends on the night of the movie and they have to fend for themselves. They yell to come home directly when the movie has ended.
31

The parent listens to Pat’s protest and reasons with the child why they should not attend the movie. In the end the decision is not to see the movie. Instead‚ the parent states that they will make popcorn and watch an appropriate video together.
32

The parent tells Pat that under no circumstances will they be allowed to attend the movie with the sibling. In their opinion‚ the child is too young to see a movie of this type and besides the bedtime rule of nine o’clock cannot be broken for any reason.
33

The parent listens intently as Kim explains why dating would be a good idea. The parent wants to know all about the friend and why Kim is interested in dating. The parent trusts Kim to do whatever seems right after their discussion.
34

The parent replied‚ “Sure‚ whatever!” to Kim’s request to go out with a friend without looking up from the television screen.
35

The parent listens to Kim’s request for permission to go out with a friend. The parent explains that despite what Kim’s friends are allowed to do‚ Kim is too young to go on a date. Instead‚ Kim’s parents offer to allow the friend to come to dinner.
36

The parent says that there is no way that Kim would be allowed to go on a date. Kim is too young to date and that’s that. The parent refuses to listen to Kim’s reasons for being allowed to date. Kim is told to follow the house rules or lose other privileges that are already enjoyed.
37

The parent states that if Taylor is going to drink‚ to they should drink responsibly‚ i.e. secure a designated driver‚ if none‚ call the parent. Taylor should be concerned regarding responsibility for the well being of self and others.
38

The parent complains over ha‎ving lost so much sleep the night before because of Taylor’s lack of consideration by calling so late. The parent instructs Taylor to call a cab next time or just walk home‚ “It’s only five miles.”
39

The parent listens to Taylor; however they stated that Taylor would be subject to more parental supervision until there are no more drinking episodes.
40

The parent threatens to send Taylor to the juvenile hall. The parents tell Taylor that if this ever happens again the police will be the ones to pick up Taylor.
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