1. Abstract
The Parenting Stress Index – Short Form (PSI-SF) is a standardized, 36-item self-report questionnaire engineered to assess stress within the parent-child relational system. Derived directly from the full-length 120-item Parenting Stress Index developed by Richard R. Abidin, the PSI-SF serves as an abbreviated, psychometrically rigorous screening and diagnostic instrument extensively implemented in pediatric, developmental, mental health, and child welfare settings. The instrument operationalizes parenting stress through a multidimensional architecture comprising three distinct 12-item subscales: Parental Distress (PD), which measures an individual’s evaluation of their personal functioning and affective distress specific to the parenting role; Parent-Child Dysfunctional Interaction (P-CDI), which captures the degree to which parents feel their interactions with their child are unfulfilling, alienated, or unresponsive to parental expectations; and Difficult Child (DC), which quantifies the parent’s perception of the child’s behavioral regulation, temperament, and compliance challenges. In addition, the instrument incorporates a Defensive Responding screening metric derived from seven items within the Parental Distress subscale to identify social desirability or denial of routine parenting strain. Responses are captured on a 5-point Likert scale ranging from 1 (Strongly Disagree) to 5 (Strongly Agree). Extensive psychometric validation demonstrates robust internal consistency, with total stress reliability coefficients typically exceeding α = .90, and subscale coefficients generally falling between .80 and .90. Confirmatory factor analyses generally corroborate the tripartite conceptual structure across diverse clinical and cross-cultural cohorts, although bifactor and hierarchical models have also received empirical support. The instrument demonstrates strong convergent, divergent, and predictive validity, functioning as a reliable predictor of child behavioral problems, dysfunctional parenting practices, and potential child maltreatment.
2. Keywords
Parenting Stress Index, PSI-SF, parenting stress, Parental Distress, Parent-Child Dysfunctional Interaction, Difficult Child, child temperament, psychometrics, family assessment, pediatric psychology, transactional model, behavioral problems, clinical screening, child welfare.
3. Authors
The Parenting Stress Index and its abbreviated iteration, the Parenting Stress Index – Short Form, were created by Richard R. Abidin, Ed.D.
- Primary Developer: Richard R. Abidin, Ed.D., ABPP
- Affiliation: Professor Emeritus of Education and Psychology, Curry School of Education and Human Development, University of Virginia, Charlottesville, Virginia, United States.
- Clinical & Scholarly Background: Dr. Abidin is a board-certified clinical psychologist specializing in child and family clinical psychology. His pioneering research focused heavily on parent-child interactions, family systems theory, early childhood intervention, and the conceptualization of stress as an ecological, transactional phenomenon within dynamic family systems.
- Publisher / Distribution Rights: The PSI-SF is commercially published, standardized, and distributed worldwide by Psychological Assessment Resources, Inc. (PAR).
4. Purpose
The primary purpose of the Parenting Stress Index – Short Form (PSI-SF) is to yield an efficient, psychometrically sound, and clinically actionable appraisal of the magnitude of stress manifesting within the parent-child ecological unit. While the original 120-item PSI offers comprehensive profiling across extensive sub-domains (encompassing child characteristics such as adaptability, demandingness, distractibility, and acceptability, as well as parent characteristics including depression, attachment, social isolation, and spousal support), its administration time of 20 to 30 minutes frequently presents significant practical barriers in high-volume pediatric practices, acute child welfare triage, and time-restricted clinical or epidemiological trials. Consequently, the 36-item PSI-SF was constructed to capture the critical variance of the original measure within a brief 10-minute administration window, without sacrificing conceptual breadth or psychometric precision.
Clinically, the PSI-SF functions across primary, secondary, and tertiary prevention paradigms:
- Primary Screening in Pediatric Healthcare: Routine pediatric examinations frequently focus on physical milestones, yet psychosocial stress within the primary caregiving dynamic often drives functional somatic complaints, behavioral difficulties, and parental fatigue. The PSI-SF enables pediatricians, pediatric nurse practitioners, and integrated behavioral health specialists to quickly identify parent-child dyads experiencing subclinical or escalating relational strain before pathological patterns solidify.
- Diagnostic Formulation and Differential Assessment: In child and adolescent mental health clinics, identifying whether externalizing behaviors (e.g., temper outbursts, oppositional defiance) stem from primary neurodevelopmental conditions (such as Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder or Autism Spectrum Disorder) or are exacerbated by parental role strain and negative relational cycles is essential. The tripartite score of the PSI-SF delineates whether the primary driver of family dysfunction resides primarily in the parent’s individual psychological vulnerability (Parental Distress), the relational reciprocity between dyadic partners (Parent-Child Dysfunctional Interaction), or the child’s endogenous behavioral reactivity (Difficult Child).
- Child Welfare, Child Protection, and Abuse Prevention: Elevated parenting stress is among the most well-documented empirical precursors to harsh parenting, punitive disciplinary tactics, emotional neglect, and physical abuse. Child protective agencies and family preservation initiatives utilize the PSI-SF to quantify baseline maltreatment risk, establish risk stratification, and identify specific intervention targets.
- Intervention Monitoring and Treatment Outcome Evaluation: The measure is widely used in evidence-based parent training programs—such as Parent-Child Interaction Therapy (PCIT), the Triple P – Positive Parenting Program, and the Incredible Years. Clinicians administer the PSI-SF at pre-treatment, mid-treatment, post-treatment, and follow-up intervals to verify whether parent training attenuates both objective interactional friction and subjective parental distress.
5. Psychological Construct
Parenting stress is conceptualized in modern clinical psychology not merely as ordinary environmental stress (such as financial distress or occupational strain) experienced by an individual who happens to be a parent, but rather as an idiosyncratic, systemic construct originating directly from the demands of fulfilling the parenting role. Richard Abidin defined parenting stress as an aversive psychological and physiological reaction to the perceived discrepancy between the demands of parenthood and the personal, social, and physical resources available to meet those demands. The PSI-SF dissects this multidimensional construct into three distinct, theoretically informed sub-constructs, accompanied by a measurement validity index:
Parental Distress (PD)
The Parental Distress (PD) subscale (Items 1–12) captures the direct distress experienced by the parent related strictly to personal characteristics, role restrictions, and existential demands tied to childrearing. This domain isolates the parent’s subjective feelings of competence, personal freedom, spousal friction, and emotional isolation. Rather than reflecting child behaviors, the PD subscale measures the parent’s affective distress, sense of being trapped, diminished social network, and cognitive appraisals of inadequacy. For example, items probe feelings of being overwhelmed to the point of collapse (e.g., “I often have the feeling that I cannot handle things, to the point of being overwhelmed”), feelings of life confinement (e.g., “I feel trapped by my responsibilities as a parent”), and profound social withdrawal or lack of peer reinforcement (e.g., “I feel alone and without friends”). High elevations on PD frequently coincide with maternal or paternal clinical depression, marital dissatisfaction, or limited social support networks.
Parent-Child Dysfunctional Interaction (P-CDI)
The Parent-Child Dysfunctional Interaction (P-CDI) subscale (Items 13–24) evaluates the parent’s perception that the child does not satisfy emotional expectations and that reciprocal interactions with the child are unfulfilling, negative, or alienating. This construct reflects the degree of emotional bonding, warmth, and mutual positive reinforcement present within the dyad. Parents scoring high on P-CDI typically perceive their child as an emotional stranger or adversary who withholds affection, appreciation, and joy. Sample indicators assess whether the parent feels emotionally unrewarded (e.g., “My child rarely does things for me that make me feel good”), perceives rejection from the child (e.g., “Sometimes I feel the child doesn’t like me and doesn’t want to be close to me”), or experiences an absence of shared positive affect (e.g., “When playing, my child doesn’t often giggle or laugh”). Clinically, elevated P-CDI is the most sensitive metric for disrupted attachment, negative attributional bias, and severe risk of emotional disengagement or child maltreatment, as it indicates the parent has ceased to experience the child as a source of reinforcement.
Difficult Child (DC)
The Difficult Child (DC) subscale (Items 25–36) measures the parent’s assessment of the child’s basic behavioral characteristics, biological rhythmicity, emotional reactivity, and self-regulatory capacities. Rooted historically in the temperament formulations of Thomas and Chess, the DC subscale does not represent an objective observational tally of the child’s psychiatric symptoms, but rather the parent’s cognitive appraisal of how demanding, defiant, and dysregulated the child is to manage. Items evaluate intense affective outbursts, fussiness, noncompliance, and executive difficulties (e.g., “My child seems to cry or fuss more often than most children”; “My child gets upset easily over the smallest thing”; and “I have found that getting my child to do something or stop doing something is much harder than I expected”). High scores indicate a child who possesses high regulatory needs, intense sensory or affective reactivity, or oppositional behavioral traits that tax the caregiving environment.
Defensive Responding (Defensive Subscale)
Because parenting is a culturally governed and socially scrutinized role, self-report measures of parenting strain are vulnerable to social desirability bias, faking good, or psychological denial. To mitigate this threat to validity, the PSI-SF integrates a Defensive Responding index derived by summing seven specific items from the Parental Distress subscale (Items 1, 2, 3, 7, 8, 9, and 11). These items evaluate basic, nearly ubiquitous challenges inherent to parenthood. If a parent’s raw score across these seven items is exceptionally low (≤ 10), it indicates that the respondent is endorsing strong disagreement with normative parental stressors (e.g., denying any loss of personal freedom, marital friction, or feelings of stress). A positive screen for Defensive Responding suggests the respondent may be attempting to project an idealized image of family life, thereby rendering overall low stress scores clinically suspect.
6. Theoretical Framework
The conceptual foundation of the Parenting Stress Index rests squarely upon Richard R. Abidin’s Transactional Model of Parenting Stress, which synthesizes concepts from family systems theory, ecological systems theory, and classical transactional models of stress and coping.
Abidin’s theoretical architecture is built upon three primary intellectual traditions:
1. The Transactional Model of Child Development
Drawing on the transactional paradigm formulated by Arnold Sameroff, Abidin posited that parenting outcomes cannot be attributed solely to child temperament or parental psychological pathology in isolation. Instead, development is shaped through continuous, bi-directional transactions between the caregiving environment and the child over time. A child exhibiting an irregular sleep cycle, high reactivity, and inconsolability (Difficult Child) places intense physiological and emotional demands on the caregiver. If the caregiver possesses low self-efficacy, inadequate emotional regulation, or limited external support (Parental Distress), the parent’s capacity to provide sensitive, coregulatory care collapses. This mismatch leads to coercive, frustrated parent-child exchanges (Parent-Child Dysfunctional Interaction), which in turn exacerbates the child’s behavioral dysregulation, forming a self-reinforcing systemic cycle.
2. Belsky’s Process Model of Parenting Determinants
The PSI-SF aligns closely with Jay Belsky’s (1984) seminal model outlining the determinants of parenting behavior. Belsky argued that parental functioning is buffered or compromised across three primary domains: (a) parental personality and psychological resources, (b) child individual characteristics, and (c) broader context and contextual sources of stress and support (e.g., spousal relationships, social networks). Abidin’s operationalization within the PSI-SF directly mirrors Belsky’s tripartite structure: Parental Distress evaluates parental emotional resources and contextual isolation, Difficult Child examines child developmental and temperamental characteristics, and Parent-Child Dysfunctional Interaction reflects the relational interface where these internal and external forces converge.
3. Lazarus and Folkman’s Cognitive-Appraisal Coping Theory
The scale integrates Richard Lazarus and Susan Folkman’s Transactional Model of Stress and Coping. According to this framework, stress is not an environmental stimulus alone, but the psychological outcome of cognitive appraisal. In primary appraisal, the parent assesses whether a child’s behavior presents a threat, harm, or challenge. In secondary appraisal, the parent evaluates whether personal coping resources are sufficient to manage that behavior. Consequently, the PSI-SF is inherently an appraisal instrument: it measures how the parent subjectively perceives, frames, and interprets caregiving demands rather than providing an objective frequency count of child behavioral incidents.
7. Validity
The validity of the PSI-SF has been corroborated across extensive clinical, community, cross-cultural, and at-risk populations. Construct, convergent, discriminant, and predictive validity indices have consistently demonstrated its psychometric utility.
Construct and Convergent Validity
The construct validity of the PSI-SF was originally confirmed by examining its correlation with the 120-item full-length PSI. Correlations between the PSI-SF Total Stress score and the full-length PSI Total Stress score routinely range from r = .92 to r = .95, confirming that the 36-item abbreviated measure captures nearly identical variance. Subscale-to-subscale correlations between the short form and their long-form counterparts are similarly robust: Parental Distress correlates at r = .92 with the full Parent Domain, Difficult Child correlates at r = .87 with the full Child Domain, and Parent-Child Dysfunctional Interaction correlates at r = .73 to .84 with long-form parent-child interaction indices.
Convergent validity has been evaluated against a broad battery of psychometric instruments:
- Parental Affective Pathology: The Parental Distress (PD) subscale demonstrates moderate-to-high positive correlations with the Beck Depression Inventory (BDI-II; r = .50 to .68) and the State-Trait Anxiety Inventory (STAI; r = .52 to .64), confirming its sensitivity to parental internalizing distress.
- Child Externalizing Behaviors: The Difficult Child (DC) subscale correlates substantially with the Externalizing Problems scale of the Child Behavior Checklist (CBCL) (r = .58 to .71) and the Hyperactivity and Conduct subscales of the Strengths and Difficulties Questionnaire (SDQ; r = .55 to .66).
- Parenting Daily Hassles: Total Stress correlates strongly with the Parenting Daily Hassles Scale (PDH; r = .65 to .75), validating the tool’s capacity to measure daily parenting strain.
Discriminant Validity
The PSI-SF effectively differentiates between non-referred community dyads and clinical or high-risk cohorts. Clinically diagnosed samples—including children diagnosed with Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD), Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD), Oppositional Defiant Disorder (ODD), and chronic physical illnesses (e.g., Type 1 diabetes, cystic fibrosis)—yield significantly elevated Total Stress and subscale scores compared to matched non-clinical control groups (often exhibiting effect sizes exceeding Cohen’s d = 0.80 to 1.20). Furthermore, research by Haskett et al. (2006) demonstrated that the PSI-SF can discriminate between physically abusive and non-abusive parents, with abusive caregivers scoring significantly higher across both the Parental Distress and Parent-Child Dysfunctional Interaction dimensions.
Predictive and Ecological Validity
Longitudinal prospective investigations highlight the predictive validity of the PSI-SF. Baseline elevations in Total Stress, and specifically in the P-CDI subscale, predict higher rates of future child externalizing behavior problems, lower academic readiness, and higher likelihood of referrals to specialized mental health clinics up to three years post-assessment. In child maltreatment contexts, high P-CDI and Total Stress scores significantly predict recurrence of physical child abuse and neglect reports to child welfare registries, even after controlling for socioeconomic disadvantage and parental education.
8. Reliability
The PSI-SF exhibits high reliability across varied demographic cohorts, languages, and clinical populations. Reliability estimates consistently surpass standard psychometric thresholds across internal consistency and temporal stability metrics.
Internal Consistency
Internal consistency estimates (evaluated via Cronbach’s alpha and McDonald’s omega) are robust across the total instrument and its component dimensions:
- Total Stress: Cronbach’s α typically ranges from .90 to .95 across diverse empirical studies (e.g., α = .91 in Abidin’s normative standardization sample; α = .95 in clinical cohorts of children with neurodevelopmental disorders).
- Parental Distress (PD): α coefficients consistently range between .85 and .90.
- Parent-Child Dysfunctional Interaction (P-CDI): α coefficients range between .80 and .89.
- Difficult Child (DC): α coefficients range between .84 and .89.
In low-income, culturally diverse, and at-risk samples, studies (such as those by Whiteside-Mansell et al., 2007, and Reitman et al., 2002) have reported slightly lower, yet clinically acceptable, alpha coefficients for P-CDI (α ≈ .78–.82), reflecting subtle cultural variations in normative expectations of reciprocal parent-child affective expressions.
Test-Retest Reliability
Temporal stability assessments indicate that the PSI-SF is stable over both short and moderate time intervals in the absence of targeted psychological intervention:
- Short-Term Stability (1 to 4 Weeks): Test-retest correlation coefficients for the Total Stress score range between r = .84 and r = .91, indicating minimal measurement error attributable to transitory affective fluctuations. Subscale retest correlations are similarly high: PD (r ≈ .85), P-CDI (r ≈ .78), and DC (r ≈ .88).
- Medium-to-Long-Term Stability (6 Months to 1 Year): In untreated control cohorts, retest stability remains substantial (r = .68 to .75 for Total Stress), demonstrating that untreated parenting stress functions largely as a stable relational trait rather than an unstable state. However, in cohorts receiving parent training (e.g., PCIT), stability drops substantially, reflecting the instrument’s sensitivity to therapeutic change.
9. Factor Analysis
The underlying dimensionality of the PSI-SF has been evaluated through extensive exploratory factor analysis (EFA) and confirmatory factor analysis (CFA) across diverse samples, yielding insightful debates regarding its structural composition.
The Theoretical Three-Factor Model
Abidin’s original three-factor structural model—comprising Parental Distress, Parent-Child Dysfunctional Interaction, and Difficult Child—remains the primary clinical scoring framework. Numerous CFA investigations report adequate-to-good model fit indices across general community samples of mothers and fathers:
- Comparative Fit Index (CFI) ≥ .90 to .94
- Tucker-Lewis Index (TLI) ≥ .90 to .93
- Root Mean Square Error of Approximation (RMSEA) ≤ .045 to .065 (with 90% confidence intervals within acceptable ranges)
- Standardized Root Mean Square Residual (SRMR) ≤ .050 to .070
Across these models, standardized factor loadings for individual items onto their designated target factors are generally robust, ranging between λ = .50 and λ = .82. Occasional cross-loadings are observed, particularly with items bridging behavioral difficulty and relational friction (e.g., Item 35: “My child turned out to be more of a problem than I had expected” occasionally loads onto both DC and P-CDI).
Alternative Factor Solutions: Bifactor and Two-Factor Models
Despite the prevalence of the three-factor model, several psychometricians (e.g., Reitman et al., 2002; Whiteside-Mansell et al., 2007; Barroso et al., 2018) have scrutinized the PSI-SF’s latent structure in urban, low-income, and father-only cohorts. These studies have frequently contrasted the theoretical three-factor model against alternative specifications:
- Unidimensional Model (One-Factor Solution): Collapsing all 36 items into a single global “Parenting Stress” factor consistently results in poor fit (CFI < .80; RMSEA > .09), confirming that parenting stress cannot be reduced to a single homogeneous construct.
- Two-Factor Model (Parent Domain vs. Child Domain): Merging P-CDI and DC into a composite Child/Interaction domain yields acceptable fit in certain at-risk demographics, reflecting that parents under severe ecological strain often conflate child behavioral issues with relational alienation.
- Bifactor Model: Recent structural equation modeling suggests that a bifactor model—consisting of a strong general parenting stress factor alongside three narrow specific factors (PD, P-CDI, DC)—often provides superior statistical fit (CFI > .95; RMSEA < .05). This suggests that while subscale profiling is clinically valuable, the Total Stress score captures substantial common variance across the instrument.
Measurement Invariance
Multigroup confirmatory factor analyses examining measurement invariance across gender (mothers vs. fathers) and across racial and ethnic groups have established configural and metric invariance, with scalar invariance partially supported. This indicates that factor patterns and item factor loadings are comparable across maternal and paternal respondents, permitting meaningful group comparisons in clinical research.
10. Instrument / Measurement Tool
- Instrument Name: Parenting Stress Index – Short Form (PSI-SF)
- Instrument Type: Standardized, multidimensional, self-administered rating scale / psychometric screening tool.
- Target Population: Parents and legal primary caregivers of children aged 1 month to 12 years (with established adaptations extending up to adolescence).
- Administration Time: Approximately 10 to 15 minutes.
- Number of Items: 36 items in total.
- Subscale Composition:
- Parental Distress (PD): 12 items (Items 1 through 12).
- Parent-Child Dysfunctional Interaction (P-CDI): 12 items (Items 13 through 24).
- Difficult Child (DC): 12 items (Items 25 through 36).
- Defensive Responding Scale: 7 specific items drawn from Parental Distress (Items 1, 2, 3, 7, 8, 9, and 11).
- Response Format: 5-point Likert scale:
- 1 = Strongly Disagree (SD)
- 2 = Disagree (D)
- 3 = Not Sure (NS)
- 4 = Agree (A)
- 5 = Strongly Agree (SA)
- Scoring and Quantification Procedures:
- Subscale Scores: Computed by summing the raw item scores within each 12-item subscale (theoretical range for each subscale: 12 to 60).
- Total Stress Score: Computed by summing all 36 items (theoretical range: 36 to 180).
- Defensive Responding Score: Computed by summing the raw responses to Items 1, 2, 3, 7, 8, 9, and 11 (theoretical range: 7 to 35). A raw score ≤ 10 suggests defensive responding or denial of routine parenting stress; scores in this range indicate the overall profile may underestimate clinical distress.
- Interpretation & Percentile Cutoffs: Raw scores are converted to normalized T-scores and percentiles based on representative normative tables.
- Normal Range: 15th to 80th percentile.
- Borderline / High Stress Range: 81st to 89th percentile (warrants monitoring and preventative clinical attention).
- Clinically Significant Stress: ≥ 90th percentile (indicates severe parenting stress requiring formal psychiatric, behavioral, or family intervention).
11. Permissions & Fee and Test Year
- Year of Initial Standardized Publication: 1995 (as a standardized short form alongside the Parenting Stress Index, 3rd Edition; updated with the PSI 4th Edition in 2012).
- Copyright & Ownership: © Psychological Assessment Resources, Inc. (PAR). All intellectual property, international trademarks, and commercial distribution rights are strictly held by PAR.
- Commercial Status and Licensing Fee: The PSI-SF is a proprietary, copyrighted commercial instrument. It is not in the public domain and is not available free of charge. Clinicians, hospital networks, and researchers must purchase test materials, scoring software, or digital administration licenses (e.g., via PARiConnect).
- Research Use and Academic Permissions: Graduate students and independent academic researchers conducting non-commercial empirical research may apply for reduced-cost research licenses or formal written permission from PAR. The unauthorized reproduction, digital hosting, translation, or dissemination of full test booklets without written consent constitutes a violation of international copyright laws.
- User Qualification Level: Qualification Level B. The administration and interpretation of the PSI-SF require foundational training in psychometric testing, assessment principles, and developmental psychology (typically satisfied by advanced degrees in clinical psychology, counseling, social work, school psychology, or related medical disciplines).
12. References
- Abidin, R. R. (1995). Parenting Stress Index, Third Edition: Professional manual. Psychological Assessment Resources.
- Abidin, R. R. (2012). Parenting Stress Index, Fourth Edition (PSI-4): Professional manual. Psychological Assessment Resources.
- Barroso, N. E., Mendez, L., Graziano, P. A., & Bagner, D. M. (2018). Parenting stress through the lenses of the Parenting Stress Index-Short Form: A systematic review and meta-analysis of its psychometric properties. Clinical Child and Family Psychology Review, 21(3), 362–385. https://doi.org/10.1007/s10567-018-0253-1
- Belsky, J. (1984). The determinants of parenting: A process model. Child Development, 55(1), 83–96. https://doi.org/10.2307/1129836
- Haskett, M. E., Ahern, L. S., Ward, C. S., & Allaire, J. C. (2006). Factor structure and validity of the Parenting Stress Index-Short Form. Journal of Clinical Child and Adolescent Psychology, 35(2), 302–312. https://doi.org/10.1207/s15374424jccp3502_14
- Lazarus, R. S., & Folkman, S. (1984). Stress, appraisal, and coping. Springer Publishing Company.
- Reitman, D., Currier, R. O., & Stickle, T. R. (2002). A critical evaluation of the Parenting Stress Index-Short Form (PSI-SF) in a head start population. Journal of Clinical Child and Adolescent Psychology, 31(3), 384–392. https://doi.org/10.1207/S15374424JCCP3103_10
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13. Items of the Scale
Response Scale:
5-point Likert scale: 1 = Strongly Disagree (SD), 2 = Disagree (D), 3 = Not Sure (NS), 4 = Agree (A), 5 = Strongly Agree (SA)
Parental Distress (PD) Subscale
- I often have the feeling that I cannot handle things, to the point of being overwhelmed.
- I find myself giving up more of my life to meet my children’s needs than I ever expected.
- I feel trapped by my responsibilities as a parent.
- Since having this child, I have been unable to do new and different things.
- Since having a child, I feel that I am almost never able to do things that I like to do.
- I am unhappy with the last purchase of clothing I made for myself.
- There are quite a few things that bother me about my life.
- Having a child has caused more problems than I expected in my relationship with my spouse (or partner).
- I feel alone and without friends.
- When I go to a party, I usually expect not to enjoy myself.
- I am not as interested in people as I used to be.
- I don’t enjoy things the way I used to.
Parent-Child Dysfunctional Interaction (P-CDI) Subscale
- My child rarely does things for me that make me feel good.
- Sometimes I feel the child doesn’t like me and doesn’t want to be close to me.
- My child smiles at me much less than I expected.
- When I do things for my child, I get the feeling that my efforts are not appreciated very much.
- When playing, my child doesn’t often giggle or laugh.
- My child doesn’t seem to learn as quickly as most children.
- My child doesn’t seem to smile as much as most children.
- My child is not able to do as much as I expected.
- It takes a long time and it is very hard for my child to get used to new things.
- I feel that I am not successful as a parent.
- When my child plays, he/she doesn’t seem to be having much fun.
- My child doesn’t seem to enjoy being with me.
Difficult Child (DC) Subscale
- My child seems to cry or fuss more often than most children.
- My child generally wakes up in a bad mood.
- I feel that my child is very moody and easily upset.
- My child does a few things which bother me a great deal.
- My child reacts very strongly when something happens that my child doesn’t like.
- My child gets upset easily over the smallest thing.
- My child’s sleeping or eating schedule was much harder to establish than I expected.
- I have found that getting my child to do something or stop doing something is much harder than I expected.
- Think carefully and count the number of things which your child does that bothers you (e.g., dawdles, refuses to listen, is messy, cries, whines).
- There are some things my child does that really bother me.
- My child turned out to be more of a problem than I had expected.
- My child makes more demands on me than most children.