1. Abstract
The Empathy Quotient (EQ) is a 60-item self-report psychometric instrument designed to measure empathy in adults with normal intelligence, developed by Simon Baron-Cohen and Sally Wheelwright at the Autism Research Centre (ARC), University of Cambridge, in 2004. Constructed within the broader paradigm of the Empathizing–Systemizing (E-S) theory, the instrument assesses individual differences in social cognition, emotional sensitivity, and interpersonal perspective-taking. Comprising 40 target empathy items and 20 filler items configured to minimize demand characteristics and response bias, the scale employs a 4-point forced-choice Likert response format (strongly agree, slightly agree, slightly disagree, strongly disagree). Items are scored using a conservative 0–1–2 scoring algorithm that assigns points only when respondents endorse the empathic direction, producing a composite total score ranging from 0 to 80.
Psychometric evaluations across non-clinical and neurodivergent samples reveal robust internal consistency (Cronbach’s α ranging between .85 and .92) and strong test-retest reliability (r = .84 to .97 across 1- to 12-month intervals). Factor-analytic investigations have identified a multidimensional architecture consisting of three primary, intercorrelated latent factors: Cognitive Empathy, Emotional Reactivity, and Social Skills. The EQ exhibits high discriminant validity, consistently separating neurotypical adults from individuals diagnosed with Autism Spectrum Conditions (ASC), including Asperger syndrome and high-functioning autism, who demonstrate significantly lower mean scores. A clinical cutoff score of 30 correctly classifies approximately 81% of autistic adults. Demonstrating robust convergent validity with the Reading the Mind in the Eyes Test and the Interpersonal Reactivity Index (IRI), the EQ remains one of the most widely implemented, cross-culturally validated psychometric instruments in social neuroscience, clinical psychology, and psychiatric assessment.
2. Keywords
Empathy Quotient, Simon Baron-Cohen, Cambridge Behaviour Scale, cognitive empathy, emotional reactivity, social cognition, Autism Spectrum Conditions, Theory of Mind, Empathizing–Systemizing theory, perspective taking, psychometrics, self-report inventory, affective empathy, social skills.
3. Authors
The Empathy Quotient was authored by Simon Baron-Cohen, PhD, FBA, FMedSci, and Sally Wheelwright, MSc, at the Autism Research Centre (ARC), Department of Psychiatry, University of Cambridge, United Kingdom.
- Simon Baron-Cohen: Professor of Developmental Psychopathology at the University of Cambridge, Fellow of Trinity College, Cambridge, and Director of the Autism Research Centre. Baron-Cohen is widely recognized for his foundational work on mindblindness, the Theory of Mind hypothesis of autism, the Empathizing–Systemizing framework, and the Extreme Male Brain theory.
- Sally Wheelwright: Senior Research Psychometrician and former lead researcher at the Autism Research Centre, University of Cambridge. Wheelwright co-developed several hallmark clinical and cognitive instruments, including the Autism-Spectrum Quotient (AQ), the Systemizing Quotient (SQ), and the Reading the Mind in the Eyes Test (RMET).
Institutional Affiliation: Autism Research Centre, Department of Psychiatry, Cambridge University, Douglas House, 18b Trumpington Road, Cambridge CB2 8AH, United Kingdom.
4. Purpose
The primary clinical and psychometric objective of the Empathy Quotient (EQ) is to provide a brief, standardized, and ecologically valid self-report instrument capable of indexing individual variations in empathy across the full continuum of human psychological functioning. Prior to the publication of the EQ in 2004, existing empathy scales—such as the Interpersonal Reactivity Index (Davis, 1983) or the Hogan Empathy Scale (Hogan, 1969)—were criticized by developmental psychopathologists for conflating empathy with other psychological constructs, such as social anxiety, personal distress, imagination, neuroticism, or general sociability.
Baron-Cohen and Wheelwright engineered the EQ to operationalize empathy as a unified, two-stage psychological phenomenon: the capacity to rapidly, intuitively identify and comprehend another person’s emotional mental states (cognitive empathy or Theory of Mind), coupled with the capacity to experience an appropriate, congruent affective reaction to those states (affective or emotional empathy). The clinical impetus behind the instrument was the diagnostic and phenomenological assessment of neurodevelopmental disorders, specifically Autism Spectrum Conditions (ASC). Because atypical social-emotional reciprocity and difficulties in interpersonal communication form a core diagnostic pillar in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM) and the International Classification of Diseases (ICD), a sensitive, quantitative metric was essential to gauge empathic divergence in adults of normative or superior intelligence.
In clinical practice, the EQ is widely deployed during multidisciplinary adult autism diagnostic evaluations. It serves as an informative screening adjunct alongside the Autism-Spectrum Quotient (AQ), identifying individuals who struggle with real-time social-pragmatic parsing, implicit social cues, and emotional mentalizing. Clinicians also utilize the EQ to evaluate social-cognitive profiles in conditions characterized by empathic perturbations, such as borderline personality disorder, psychopathy, narcissistic personality disorder, alexithymia, frontotemporal dementia, and traumatic brain injury involving the prefrontal cortex.
In basic and cognitive research, the scale serves as a standard metric in social neuroscience. It is routinely correlated with functional magnetic resonance imaging (fMRI) paradigms evaluating the mirror neuron system, the insular cortex, and the default mode network (DMN). It is also employed to investigate neuroendocrinological correlates (e.g., salivary oxytocin, prenatal testosterone ratios via the 2D:4D digit ratio) and behavioral patterns in experimental economics, such as altruistic punishment and prosocial resource allocation.
5. Psychological Construct
The Empathy Quotient operationalizes empathy as a multidimensional construct spanning social, cognitive, and affective behavioral systems. Psychologically, empathy allows an observer to construct an internal representation of another agent’s mental and emotional state, contextualize that representation within social reality, and manifest an attuned emotional and behavioral response. Baron-Cohen and Wheelwright deliberately isolated empathy from broad personality markers, defining it across specific cognitive and emotional domains.
Cognitive Empathy (Mentalizing / Perspective-Taking)
Cognitive empathy entails the intellectual attribution of mental states—including desires, intentions, beliefs, knowledge, and emotions—to other individuals. Colloquially termed “putting oneself in somebody else’s shoes,” this dimension reflects the structural mechanisms of Theory of Mind. Individuals high in cognitive empathy rapidly parse subtle verbal cues, ironic utterances, bodily gestures, and micro-expressions to deduce what an interlocutor feels or intends. For example, Item 1 (“I can easily tell if someone else wants to enter a conversation”) and Item 55 (“I can tell if someone is masking their true emotion”) gauge the participant’s facility in decoding implicit social nuances without requiring direct didactic disclosure.
Affective Empathy (Emotional Reactivity / Resonating)
Affective empathy constitutes the vicarious emotional response to another individual’s affective experience. Unlike raw emotional contagion—in which an observer blindly absorbs panic or distress without self-other differentiation—affective empathy retains structural boundaries while facilitating an emotionally congruent state. This includes compassionate concern, vicarious distress, and visceral resonance with another person’s physical or psychological pain. For instance, Item 38 (“It upsets me to see an animal in pain”) and Item 42 (“I get upset if I see people suffering on news programmes”) index this spontaneous affective reactivity.
Social Skills and Spontaneous Social Pragmatics
Later psychometric investigations (e.g., Lawrence et al., 2004; Allison et al., 2011) demonstrated that the EQ captures a crucial behavioral facet: spontaneous, intuitive social communication. Unlike explicit rule-based calculations of social conventions, empathic social competence operates intuitively. Items measuring this construct evaluate the extent to which an individual acts tactfully, avoids offending others unwittingly, and moderates communicative bluntness. For example, Item 34 (“I am very blunt, which some people take to be rudeness, even though this is unintentional”) and Item 57 (“I don’t consciously work out the rules of social situations; I just do things instinctively”) assess the automated fluidity of real-time social navigation.
6. Theoretical Framework
The theoretical architecture of the Empathy Quotient is fundamentally anchored in the Empathizing–Systemizing (E-S) theory of psychological sex differences and neurodevelopmental divergence, formulated by Simon Baron-Cohen. The E-S model conceptualizes human cognitive profiles along two orthogonal dimensions:
- Empathizing (E): The drive to identify another person’s emotions and thoughts, and to respond to these with an appropriate emotion, allowing one to predict behavior and establish affective social bonds.
- Systemizing (S): The drive to analyze, construct, and derive the underlying lawful rules of non-agentive systems (mechanical, natural, abstract, or computational), enabling the prediction of system behavior governed by deterministic “if-then” principles.
According to this theoretical perspective, individual brains can be classified into distinct cognitive profiles based on standardized discrepancies between normalized Empathizing and Systemizing scores: Type E (E > S), Type S (S > E), Type B (Balanced: E ≈ S), Extreme Type E (E >> S), and Extreme Type S (S >> E). Population-level psychometric data consistently demonstrate sex differences across these dimensions: females, on average, score significantly higher on measures of empathizing (Type E distribution), whereas males, on average, score higher on measures of systemizing (Type S distribution).
The E-S framework extends directly into the Extreme Male Brain (EMB) theory of autism. The EMB theory posits that the cognitive and neurobehavioral phenotype of Autism Spectrum Conditions represents an hyper-developed systemizing drive coupled with significant impairments or atypicalities in empathizing (Extreme Type S). Autistic cognition exhibits a powerful capacity to parse closed, predictable, input-operation-output rule-based systems, alongside profound vulnerabilities in decoding fluid, unpredictable, multi-agent social interactions that cannot be solved through linear deterministic algorithms. The EQ was deliberately designed to test this hypothesis by quantifying individual differences in the “E” dimension across normative and clinical populations.
From an evolutionary and neurobiological standpoint, the EQ maps onto several distinct cerebral networks identified in social cognitive neuroscience:
- The Anterior Insula and Anterior Mid-Cingulate Cortex (AI/aMCC): Implicated in the affective sharing of somatic and emotional distress.
- The Temporoparietal Junction (TPJ), Superior Temporal Sulcus (STS), and Medial Prefrontal Cortex (mPFC): Underlying the mentalizing/Theory of Mind network, driving cognitive perspective-taking.
- The Inferior Frontal Gyrus (IFG) and Inferior Parietal Lobule (IPL): Forming the putative human mirror neuron system associated with action-perception coupling and motor simulation of others’ emotional expressions.
7. Validity
The construct, criterion, convergent, and discriminant validity of the Empathy Quotient have been exhaustively corroborated through empirical validation studies spanning clinical, neurotypical, and international populations.
Known-Groups and Discriminant Validity
The initial validation study by Baron-Cohen and Wheelwright (2004) established profound known-groups discriminant validity. Administering the scale to N = 197 neurotypical adults (90 men, 107 women) and N = 90 adults diagnosed with Asperger syndrome or high-functioning autism, the researchers observed striking group differences. Neurotypical females scored significantly higher than neurotypical males (Mean = 47.2, SD = 10.2 vs. Mean = 41.8, SD = 11.2; t = 3.56, p < .001). Conversely, the autistic cohort scored markedly lower than both neurotypical cohorts (Mean = 20.4, SD = 11.7; F = 163.6, p < .0001).
At a clinical cutoff score of ≤ 30 out of 80, the EQ demonstrated high diagnostic sensitivity and specificity: 81.1% of adults with ASC scored at or below 30, compared to only 12.2% of neurotypical controls. Independent clinical replications (e.g., Sucksmith et al., 2013; Wakabayashi et al., 2006) have verified this cutoff as a robust screening metric for detecting social-pragmatic and socio-emotional vulnerabilities.
Convergent and Concurrent Validity
The EQ demonstrates strong convergent validity with established psychometric and behavioral measures of social cognition:
- Reading the Mind in the Eyes Test (RMET): EQ scores correlate positively and significantly with performance on the RMET (r ≈ .30 to .45, p < .01), demonstrating that higher self-reported empathy tracks with objective perceptual decoding of subtle emotional cues from the eye region.
- Interpersonal Reactivity Index (IRI): Lawrence et al. (2004) examined concurrent validity against Davis’s IRI subscales. The EQ correlated strongly with the Perspective Taking subscale (r = .55, p < .001) and the Empathic Concern subscale (r = .58, p < .001). Demonstrating excellent construct clarity, the EQ exhibited negligible or non-significant correlations with the IRI Personal Distress subscale, confirming that the EQ measures attuned empathic engagement rather than self-oriented emotional fragility or neurotic anxiety.
- Autism-Spectrum Quotient (AQ): Across neurotypical and clinical cohorts, the EQ shows a strong, expected inverse correlation with the AQ (typically r = −.55 to −.68, p < .001), corroborating the theoretical premise that elevated autistic traits inversely predict generalized empathic functioning.
Cross-Cultural and Cross-Linguistic Validity
The scale has demonstrated robust cross-cultural stability across numerous linguistic translations. Psychometric evaluations of the Japanese version (Wakabayashi et al., 2006), French version (Berthoz et al., 2008), Italian version (Preti et al., 2011), and Persian version (Nejati et al., 2012) replicate the identical pattern of normative sex differences (females > males), profound score depressions in autistic cohorts, and equivalent structural factor configurations.
8. Reliability
The psychometric reliability of the Empathy Quotient has been evaluated across extensive general population cohorts, student samples, and clinical groups, consistently demonstrating high internal consistency and stability across time.
Internal Consistency
In the original validation study by Baron-Cohen and Wheelwright (2004), the internal consistency of the 40 scored empathy items was high, with a calculated Cronbach’s alpha of α = .92. Subsequent large-scale investigations have consistently supported these initial findings:
- Lawrence et al. (2004) reported an internal consistency of α = .85 in a large British university sample (N = 198).
- Wakabayashi et al. (2006) reported an α of .88 for the total score in a Japanese sample exceeding 1,200 participants.
- Berthoz et al. (2008) observed Cronbach’s α coefficients of .86 in men and .87 in women within a French normative cohort.
- Item-total correlations for the 40 scored items typically range from .30 to .68, with very few items falling below the classical psychometric threshold of .25, confirming that the scored items measure a coherent psychological construct.
Test-Retest Reliability
The temporal stability of the EQ is exceptionally high, confirming that the instrument taps into stable, trait-like behavioral dispositions rather than fluctuating transient mood states. Baron-Cohen and Wheelwright (2004) re-tested a subset of neurotypical participants (n = 25) over a 12-month test-retest interval, obtaining an intraclass correlation coefficient of r = .97 (p < .001). Subsequent studies utilizing shorter test-retest intervals (ranging from 3 weeks to 6 months) have consistently demonstrated test-retest reliability coefficients between r = .83 and .91, indicating robust psychometric durability.
9. Factor Analysis
Although the EQ was initially conceptualized as an omnibus, unifactorial metric of general empathy, subsequent exploratory factor analyses (EFA) and confirmatory factor analyses (CFA) have demonstrated that the scale is best characterized by a robust multidimensional, hierarchical structure.
The Three-Factor Model of Lawrence et al. (2004)
In a benchmark psychometric re-examination, Lawrence, Shaw, Baker, Baron-Cohen, and David (2004) performed principal components analysis (PCA) with oblimin rotation on the 40 scored items. Their analysis revealed a coherent three-factor structure explaining substantial common variance:
- Factor 1: Cognitive Empathy (mentalizing, theory of mind). Comprising 11 items (e.g., Items 1, 19, 25, 26, 36, 41, 44, 52, 54, 55, 58), this factor captures the active cognitive decoding of other individuals’ internal states and affective intentions. (Cronbach’s α = .85).
- Factor 2: Emotional Reactivity (affective empathy). Comprising 11 items (e.g., Items 6, 22, 32, 38, 42, 43, 50, 59, 60), this factor reflects spontaneous visceral resonance, emotional responsiveness to distress, and prosocial sympathetic inclinations. (Cronbach’s α = .72).
- Factor 3: Social Skills (spontaneous interpersonal pragmatics). Comprising 6 items (e.g., Items 4, 8, 12, 14, 34, 35), this factor indexes behavioral tact, social ease, and the avoidance of involuntary communicative blunders. (Cronbach’s α = .65).
Confirmatory Factor Analyses (CFA) and Fit Indices
Subsequent structural equation modeling across diverse international datasets has validated Lawrence et al.’s 3-factor model over the unidimensional alternative. Typical fit indices supporting this 28-item 3-factor configuration include:
- Comparative Fit Index (CFI): .91 to .94
- Tucker-Lewis Index (TLI): .90 to .93
- Root Mean Square Error of Approximation (RMSEA): .042 to .055 (90% CI [.038, .059])
- Standardized Root Mean Square Residual (SRMR): .048 to .058
Muncer and Ling (2006) confirmed that while a single general second-order factor exists (“General Empathy”), the three-factor lower-order configuration provides superior empirical fit. These structural investigations formed the psychometric blueprint for modern shortened derivatives, such as the EQ-40, EQ-28, and the ultra-short EQ-8 (Allison et al., 2011), which retain optimal factor loadings across these three domains.
10. Instrument / Measurement Tool
- Full Instrument Name: The Empathy Quotient (EQ) / Cambridge Behaviour Scale
- Authors: Simon Baron-Cohen and Sally Wheelwright (2004)
- Administration Format: Self-administered paper-and-pencil or interactive digital questionnaire
- Target Population: Adults (16+ years of age) with normal intelligence (IQ ≥ 85)
- Administration Time: Approximately 10 to 15 minutes
- Total Number of Items: 60 items
- Target Empathy Items: 40 items
- Filler / Distractor Items: 20 items (included to disrupt social desirability and acquiescence bias)
- Authentic Response Scale: 4-point forced-choice scale:
- Strongly agree
- Slightly agree
- Slightly disagree
- Strongly disagree
- Scoring Methodology & Algorithm:
To eliminate extreme-response bias (the tendency of certain respondents to systematically select extreme response anchors regardless of item content), Baron-Cohen and Wheelwright designed a conservative 0–1–2 scoring system. Participants receive 2 points for strongly endorsing the empathic response, 1 point for slightly endorsing the empathic response, and 0 points for endorsing non-empathic options.
- Positively Keyed Items (21 items): Items 1, 6, 19, 22, 25, 26, 35, 36, 37, 38, 41, 42, 43, 44, 52, 54, 55, 57, 58, 59, 60.
- Strongly Agree = 2 points
- Slightly Agree = 1 point
- Slightly Disagree = 0 points
- Strongly Disagree = 0 points
- Negatively Keyed / Reverse-Scored Items (18 items): Items 4, 8, 10, 11, 12, 14, 15, 18, 27, 28, 29, 32, 34, 39, 46, 48, 49, 50.
- Strongly Disagree = 2 points
- Slightly Disagree = 1 point
- Slightly Agree = 0 points
- Strongly Agree = 0 points
- Filler Items (21 items): Items 2, 3, 5, 7, 9, 13, 16, 17, 20, 21, 23, 24, 30, 31, 33, 40, 45, 47, 51, 53, 56.
- These items evaluate daily routines, moral absolutes, habits, and preferences. They receive 0 points and are excluded from the composite score calculation.
- Positively Keyed Items (21 items): Items 1, 6, 19, 22, 25, 26, 35, 36, 37, 38, 41, 42, 43, 44, 52, 54, 55, 57, 58, 59, 60.
- Score Interpretation:
- Score Range: 0 to 80 points.
- Clinical Screening Cutoff: A score of ≤ 30 indicates clinically significant empathic and social-cognitive vulnerabilities, strongly suggestive of an Autism Spectrum Condition (occurring in >80% of ASC adults vs. <12% of neurotypicals).
- Normative Ranges:
- 0 – 32: Low empathy (typical of adults with autism or Asperger syndrome)
- 33 – 52: Average empathy (typical range for neurotypical males: Mean ≈ 41.8)
- 53 – 63: Above average empathy (typical range for neurotypical females: Mean ≈ 47.2)
- 64 – 80: Very high empathy
11. Permissions & Fee and Test Year
The Empathy Quotient (EQ) was first published in 2004 by Simon Baron-Cohen and Sally Wheelwright in the Journal of Autism and Developmental Disorders. The instrument was developed at the Autism Research Centre (ARC), University of Cambridge.
Licensing and Accessibility: In accordance with the academic and scientific mission of the Autism Research Centre, the EQ is an open-access, royalty-free psychometric instrument. The scale is freely accessible and downloadable for academic research, non-commercial psychological inquiries, and clinical diagnostic screenings via the official Autism Research Centre test portal (www.autismresearchcentre.com/arc_tests). Commercial enterprises, for-profit publishing houses, or proprietary software developers seeking to incorporate the instrument into monetization frameworks must secure formal written permission from the Autism Research Centre and the University of Cambridge.
12. References
Allison, C., Baron-Cohen, S., Wheelwright, S. J., Stone, M. H., & Muncer, S. J. (2011). Psychometric analysis of the Empathy Quotient (EQ). BMC Psychiatry, 11, Article 47. https://doi.org/10.1186/1471-244X-11-47
Baron-Cohen, S., & Wheelwright, S. (2004). The Empathy Quotient: An investigation of adults with Asperger syndrome or high functioning autism, and normal sex differences. Journal of Autism and Developmental Disorders, 34(2), 163–175. https://doi.org/10.1023/B:JADD.0000022607.19833.00
Berthoz, S., Wessa, M., Kedia, G., Wicker, B., & Grèzes, J. (2008). Cross-cultural validation of the Empathy Quotient in a French sample. L’Encéphale, 34(2), 154–165. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.encep.2007.07.003
Davis, M. H. (1983). Measuring individual differences in empathy: Evidence for a multidimensional approach. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 44(1), 113–126. https://doi.org/10.1037/0022-3514.44.1.113
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Wakabayashi, A., Baron-Cohen, S., Wheelwright, S., Goldenfeld, N., Delaney, J., Fine, D., Smith, R., & Weil, L. (2006). Development of short forms of the Empathy Quotient (EQ-Short) and the Systemizing Quotient (SQ-Short). Personality and Individual Differences, 41(5), 929–940. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.paid.2006.03.017
13. Items of the Scale
Response Scale: 4-point scale: strongly agree, slightly agree, slightly disagree, strongly disagree
- I can easily tell if someone else wants to enter a conversation.
- I prefer animals to humans.
- I try to keep up with the current trends and fashions.
- I find it difficult to explain to others things that I understand easily, when they don’t understand it the first time.
- I dream most nights.
- I really enjoy caring for other people.
- I try to solve my own problems rather than discussing them with others.
- I find it hard to know what to do in a social situation.
- I am at my best first thing in the morning.
- People often tell me that I went too far in driving my point home in a discussion.
- It doesn’t bother me too much if I am late meeting a friend.
- Friendships and relationships are just too difficult, so I tend not to bother with them.
- I would never break a law, no matter how minor.
- I often find it difficult to judge if something is rude or polite.
- In a conversation, I tend to focus on my own thoughts rather than on what my listener might be thinking.
- I prefer practical jokes to verbal humour.
- I live life for today, rather than the future.
- When I was a child, I used to enjoy cutting up worms to see what would happen.
- I can pick up quickly if someone says one thing but means another.
- I tend to have very strong opinions about morality.
- It is hard for me to see why some things upset people so much.
- I find it easy to put myself in somebody else’s shoes.
- I think that good manners are the most important thing a parent can teach their child.
- I like to do things on the spur of the moment.
- I am good at predicting how someone will feel.
- I am quick to spot when someone in a group is feeling awkward or uncomfortable.
- If I say something that someone else is offended by, I think that that’s their problem, not mine.
- If anyone asked me if I liked their haircut, I would reply truthfully, even if I didn’t like it.
- I can’t always see why someone should have felt offended by a remark.
- People often tell me that I am very unpredictable.
- I enjoy being the centre of attention at any social gathering.
- Seeing people cry doesn’t really upset me.
- I enjoy having discussions about politics.
- I am very blunt, which some people take to be rudeness, even though this is unintentional.
- I don’t tend to find social situations confusing.
- Other people tell me I am good at understanding how they are feeling and what they are thinking.
- When I talk to people, I tend to talk about their experiences rather than my own.
- It upsets me to see an animal in pain.
- I am able to make decisions without being influenced by people’s feelings.
- I can’t relax until I have done everything I had planned to do that day.
- I can easily tell if someone else is interested or bored with what I am saying.
- I get upset if I see people suffering on news programmes.
- Friends usually talk to me about their problems as they say that I am very understanding.
- I can sense if I am intruding, even if the other person doesn’t tell me.
- I often start new hobbies, but quickly become bored with them and move on to something else.
- People sometimes tell me that I have gone too far with teasing.
- I would be too nervous to go on a big rollercoaster.
- Other people often say that I am insensitive, though I don’t always see why.
- If I see a stranger in a group, I think that it is up to them to make an effort to join in.
- I usually stay emotionally detached when watching a film.
- I like to be very organised in day to day life and often make lists of the chores I have to do.
- I can tune into how someone else feels rapidly and intuitively.
- I don’t like to take risks.
- I can easily work out what another person might want to talk about.
- I can tell if someone is masking their true emotion.
- Before making a decision I always weigh up the pros and cons.
- I don’t consciously work out the rules of social situations; I just do things instinctively.
- I am good at sensing what someone is feeling, almost as if I can read their mind.
- I tend to get emotionally involved with a friend’s problems.
- I can usually appreciate the other person’s viewpoint, even if I do not agree with it.